Its hard to let go when we dont know why theyre gone. Its natural to want an explanation, an understanding, something that puts their leaving into perspective. Its hard to move on when there is nothing but silence, or worse, a strangely formal way of relating, as though you made the whole thing up. But we cant put our lives on hold, waiting for an answer that may never come. Maybe they will tell us one day, or maybe they will never understand it themselves. It isnt that important. What is important is that we dont abandon ourselves in the heart of loss. That we dont make anothers presence more important than our own. That we dont lock ourselves in a prison of our own making, waiting for an external liberator to set us free. If they have left, we have to leave too. We have to let the pain through the holes they left behind so it can find its ultimate destination. Because we have so much left to do. Our precious life waits on no one.
Posted on: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 20:19:40 +0000
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