Ladies,Here are 10 tips on how to keep your man, its not easy but its worth it: REALITY: We cant live without them so we have to keep them. Trust me,once you know the secret weapon below. Your man will stick around. You have everything you need to keep your man. Tip1: First important thing Ladies. We need to feel good, confident and to know that we are beautiful. No matter how much you are threatened by other womans intellect or beauty,dont let your man to see it as your weakness. *Dont discuss how you feel about other women with your man. When your man chosen you,He wasnt blind. If your man thinks that it was a mistake, then prove him wrong. There is a saying that says“ be yourself dont try to change.” I dont agree much with it. There are things that we are not comfortable with, that we can change eg overweight, dressing, behavior etc, we can definitely change and feel good not necessarily doing it for man but to enjoy life . Truly speaking were living in the world of competition but u need to compete with yourself. You need to keep on upgrading yourself so as to stand out. Being a lady Is a greatest gift of life time. Tip2: We need to understand that all men comes from God and they are children of God. And when they misbehave, we have the right to report them to their father. *Calling your man names will never solve anything instead its sinning against God their creator. Whatever you are going thru as women,dont think that you have the right to judge or insult your man e.g (man are dogs). *Once you trust God with your man and do exactly what the bible says without taking matters in your own hands,eg spying,going around telling people and saying evil stuff about man. God will definitely take control of the situation. *Most people are struggling and crying and think God doesnt answer but 1 thing I learn about God,he is on Christs side, meaning he fight for those who do things according to his word. If your man cheats, then u insult him and you pray at the same time expecting God to be on your side because your man sinned. You are definitely wrong .According to God you both sinned because u acted against his word. Tip 3: To know our role in marriage is important. If we only know that we stand as wives and our task is to submit to our husband, respect, support them and work with them. We will never go wrong. Most christians they try to disciple their husband,instead live by example. *God sees every unfair situation in your life. We dont have authority over anyone but God does and he knows how to deal with his people. *Purpose of a bedroom according to men. Every man loves a bedroom. After long day of hard working, they need,Rest,entertainment and peace and they can only find it in the bedroom. More over thats the main reason they get married. Tip4: Ladies dont turn your bedrooms into a courtroom of questioning and judging your man. If you have anything to ask or discuss,do it before u go in the bedroom and when u get in the bedroom,enjoy your life. Three things that attracts a man when he gets in the bedroom. His lady when she is smelling nice ,his bed when its well decorated and the mood of the lady if she is happy and smiling. Tip5: The way u spent money maintaining your body must be the way u spent on your bedding. Let your bed be the most decorated than anything in the house. We ladies spent more on decorating our kitchens an dining for other people to see more than our own bedroom,our haven. *Once we understand that our bedroom is a room of happiness we will spent more time working on three things that I mentioned about. Even our precious babies are invented in our bedroom. Tip6: Timing is very important,we must know when to ask or talk to our husband. Man doesnt like being disturbed when they are watching their favorite games or when sitting and chatting with friends. Tip7: Nagging never changed a man, it makes matters worse. The way we talk to our husband is important. Low voice or high voice wont make the words different or give more value to their meaning. The meaning is the same. Rather be humble and soft. Men need some respect. They dont want a nagging wife. Tip8: Smile is the most and powerful secret weapon of a women. Spending time angry makes you ugly and boring. No matter how angry you are keep on maintaining your beauty by smiling. Tip9: Joining man in their games is another attracting thing to do eg if a man loves soccer. Before it starts, you make popcorns and come sit next to them and watch together. Support them not going against them. Tip 10 :Lastly and powerful. Ladies, You must figure out what you are good at so that you wont be in every case of your hubby. *Good example: I love writing stories,when my man goes out,I will rejoice because I will have all the time for myself to write. Like Im doing now. So are you,if you dont have anything to do spent time learning new ways of loving your man than spying on him. Once you pray in the morning for God to protect your hubby,let God do his work through out the day and you just relax and enjoy life. REMEMBER you are beautiful,Unique and 1 of a kind.. FOLLOW THIS LINK tiny.cc/hd3hdx for more awesome posts
Posted on: Fri, 25 Apr 2014 21:45:31 +0000
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