Let me explain why controllers should be avoided at all cost: First and foremost, controllers are very insecure people. A controller thinks the only way to have you is to keep you away from others. This is the controller’s problem, and there’s nothing you can do to fix it. Tolerating this behavior will only perpetuate it. Secondly, you will never earn a controller’s trust. If there is no trust, you can’t have a good relationship–period. In a healthy relationship, trust deepens and builds over time. It doesn’t work this way with a controller. He/she will never trust you, so the relationship is doomed. Thirdly, controlling relationships are not likely to improve. Please don’t tell yourself that he/she can change. In fact, things are likely to get worse over time, possibly escalating to physical abuse. Fourthly, controllers will keep you from enjoying single life. We singles should be able to enjoy the privileges of our single status. You should be able to hang out with your friends, try new things, explore new hobbies, travel, or whatever else you dream of doing. Why would you give all of this up for the slavery of an insecure, miserable relationship? - Kevin Sanders.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Mar 2014 10:58:12 +0000
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