NO ONE CAN BREAK YOUR HEART: It’s funny when I hear people say someone broke their heart, which in my perspective view of life shows me a heart cannot be broken, only our feelings get hurt. You can love or hate because you want to, we fall or rise because of our feelings, and the worst kind of heartache is the kind you inflict on yourself, no one has the power to do that unless you’re being tortured. When you find your heart is troubled and forgiving doesn’t help clear the clouds, perhaps you should try letting them go and erase their existence in your memories, for sometimes it’s the best way to forgive rather than live with them. God gave you power use it, to bring light, happiness and freedom in your life, for life was never meant for us to live in despair or mourn about the bad things that has happened to us. If you don’t want to break your own heart, then don’t. Cut yourself off from those who make you feel bad or discouraged, no matter how cool or rich you think they’re you don’t need them in your life. Learn to change and learn to grow, look at the clouds above you and look at it tomorrow at the same spot, it wont be there, it moves, and so should you. If you regret some of the decisions you’ve made in the past, stop being so hard on yourself. At that time, you did your best with the knowledge you had. At that time, you did your best with the experience you had. Your decisions were made with a younger mind. If you were to make these decisions with the wisdom you have now, you would choose differently. So give yourself a break. Time and experience has a wonderful way of helping us prosper, grow and learn to make better choices today, for ourselves and those we care for. You may not have wings, but you’re free to be or go anywhere on this planet to live your life. You may not be strong, but you can stand for yourself, than be a slave to someone else. If someone does not respect you then they don’t love you, if they have hurt you twice they will hurt a hundreds times more. Never be with someone who want to change you or own you, you should embrace who you are and be yourself because it is who you were born to be. No one else lives in your body, or sees life through your eyes. No one else has lived through your exact experiences. And so, no one else has the right to dictate or judge how you feel. Your feelings are important. Don’t let anyone lead you to believe otherwise. There are some people who say I love you because they grew up saying and being told I love you, and just because they tell you they love you even when they hurt you, it doesn’t mean they truly love you or know the meaning of love, they say it because they have nothing to say, love is not supposed to hurt, and you know it. It’s really painful to say goodbye to someone that you don’t want to let go of, but it’s even more painful to hold on to them if they never wanted to stay in the first place. If someone doesn’t show you the same love that you show them, and acts as if you are unimportant most of the time, this may be a big clue as to the fact that you don’t need them in your life either. The only people you truly need in your life are those who respect you and want you to be in theirs. Be with someone or people who adore you, who care for you, who inspire and encourage you, people who make you feel alive and good about yourself, people who make you laugh, people who listen and understands you, this is what you need. Because a good relationship is when two people accept each other’s past, support each other’s present, and love each other enough to encourage each other’s future. So don’t rush love. Find a partner who encourages you to grow, who won’t cling to you, who will let you go out into the world, and trust that you will come back. This is what true love is all about, and it’s always worth the wait.
Posted on: Sun, 01 Sep 2013 11:20:21 +0000
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