ORIENTATION # 985 : TALKATIVE PARROTS, GOSSIPING MINDS AND HEN-NMENT OF THE PSYCHE _____________________________ Confidence indeed is just like a comfortable mental bed.. Often it results in productive outcomes.. sometimes else it develops hasty circumstances due to an excess of psychological security applied to certain actions .. but is there a complete understanding of confidence ? Of its psychological mechanisms ? Meaning: a whole comprehension of the psychological movements, then actions, the mind generates during a condition and duration of confidence ? One wonders if we are available to a reflection apt to denote how often our self-confidence turns us into talkative parrots.. ruminating fast words over other fast words.. which come from super fast thoughts, the intellectual understanding of which is hardly and barely present, if not in their most basic surface only.. Its a matter of fact that the many of us like to talk more than remaining in silence.. Now: by extrapolating this observation from the petrified limbo of the right and wrong as a dual measurement of analysis, one can say that communication requires so constantly words, language, elaboration of concepts.. an thats true.. But whats propedeutical to an intelligent communication should be an understanding of what we are willing to express and share, then say.. a priori.. otherwise, in absence of understanding, the linguistic-communicative outcome of our psyche will always produce merely confabulations.. a uninterrupted chattering.. which can be entertaining sometimes.. but in terms of sharing it can only create confusion.. inwardly and outwardly.. Everybody wants a certain level of confidence, cause with no confidence there is just instability, alienation, isolation.. but just few are willing to examine what the dark side of confidence is .. which so often expresses itself through a sort of over-security.. which frequently leads to manias of power or leadership, or act of gossiping for nothingness, or (lets say:) hen-ment of the psyche (the mind chats like a hen) .. or merely complete inattentiveness and constant chattering distraction.. Its obvious that psychological accommodation, habits, routines and so on are all sons of over-confidence . . and this is what it is in regard of the practical-everydays life sphere: we shape, voluntarily or not, daily, habits.. structures where to be comfortable.. also known as comfort area.. and thats fine when such activity is not insane or maniacal.. But what about when it comes to the psychological level ? What is that condition that over-confidence creates when applied and cultivated within the psychological sphere of living ? Its belief.. Belief grows from confusion, desperation, need to belong and so on.. but it also grows from aggregation of layers of over-confidence: it just changes the name: from belief in tradition when its a collective thing, or personality when its individual factor.. This psychological reality, if lacking of self-awareness of it, always tends to become mental sedimentation.. and in this disgraced case; confidence paradoxically works as an eraser of fresh intelligence.. This is the industry of moralisms, rhetorical thinking, superficiality, psychosocial stagnations of various types.. then up to the monsters of macro beliefs and the whole spiritual-motivational illusion.. After all; we all want confidence.. but the many of us merely adopt and conglomerate within their psyche a second-hand confidence coming from the culture where they live .. and those who develop, proudly, their own confidence.. so often have any psychological efforts aimed to explore if there is in their heads a complete awareness of their confidence.. because confidence and awareness of it ..should walk together.. _______________________________________ endoffear.weebly/ eofproject.org jessicamystic
Posted on: Fri, 22 Aug 2014 09:02:28 +0000
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