Ok, so here is the deal... Last I checked, I was divorced in 2013. I may have been imagining things, but I am pretty damn sure the judge not only made final decisions in my divorce, but also determined how our girls are taken care of. I would like to elaborate on these decisions because it seems like some people have a problem with what the final decision of the judge was, and they may be confused. (At least I am pretty sure they are, as there are a lot of snide comments, and continuous questions). I do have full custody of Oliva and Abbigale. It has been dictated by the court that I make sole decisions with respect to the girls and what they do, and where they do it, as well as the day to day decisions that must be made for them. I also provide a very loving and happy home and as well everything I can give them within my power. Yes, the girls are very happy. Yes, recently, (most of you know this already), they were in Wisconsin. No, they did not see their biological mother. Why? Because I didnt want them to. No, I am not preventing them from seeing her. They have not seen their biological mother for some time. And the last time they saw her was during Christmas. She was offered to spend a full week of days with them from 7am until 8pm. She chose to spend only two short days with them. The visit to Wisconsin was short, and I did not want to impose or waste time to hear no, or have to tell the girls, Sorry, here is why you cant go here or there.... (Nowhere in my divorce papers did the Judge dictate I must notify anyone in Wisconsin, or offer visitation to anyone other then whom I decide!) The girls do not receive calls from anyone in the family aside from their grandparents, their Oma and Opa, and several select cousins. Its not that I dont let them call the girls, they choose not to. The excuse of I dont know what number to call is bull. Ive had the same cell number for around 10 years. Not only that, but I can be asked through social media or email. That hasnt changed either. Each week, in accordance to the divorce decree they wait for a phone call. For those of you that find it a problem that they call Sandie Mom, well sorry, that was the girls decisions. And I will support it 110%. They absolutely LOVE Sandie Fox Wright like no other. And crazy as it sounds, Im not going to stop them, or tell them it is wrong, unlike some people. Sandie deserves it. She is more than willing to bend over backwards for the girls, and she loves them back just as much! The things she does for the girls is not only priceless, but also never ending. She wipes the tears away, comforts them when they are sad, turns frowns upside down, holds them up when they feel down, and last but definitely not least, she teaches them what it is like to be loved. So, I challenge ANYONE who disagrees with the aforementioned words.. if you have a problem with my decisions that I make for Sandie and my girls, then tell me to my face. Not behind my back. Or the girls back. If you agree with how Sandie and I raise our girls, maybe you should try what you would do, with your kids. Keep mine out of it. As for your opinions... keep them to yourself. Im not interested in hearing them. They only show how low you are, and how little you know of the situation at hand. So until anyone who disagrees with any of this can manage to do for the girls what myself, Sandie, or any other close relative does for them, back off and please keep your comments to yourself. And by the way, its not because it bothers me, but I am sure that someday the girls will be old enough to understand the things that are being said by others about the ones they love. Stop burning bridges people! Stop burning Bridges. I love our girls with everything I have, and Sandie and I will stop at nothing the protect them. Thank you for your time.
Posted on: Tue, 09 Sep 2014 00:07:34 +0000
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