People around my age disgust me. First of all I just want to lay some stuff out here on the line. Marriage isnt something you take advantage of, you dont just do it because you like someone youve dated for two weeks and think they are the one. Especially if they have nasty habits or jail is their second home. Thats probably your first sign, second is probably no job and no plans on a job, and the list will continue to go on. But let me tell you something, before you go and attempt to marry a guy or lay down with one and get pregnant, maybe you should understand the definition of marriage and be honest enough with yourself to know when you arent mature enough to have a kid or get married. You dont just get married because you think its the new fad or because you may have some more things in common with your friends, so stop being so stupid and blind and admit that you are not mature enough for such a commitment and many of you or maybe your friends are damn sure not mature enough to have kids let alone take care of them. Stop being so selfish and bringing different men into your home every couple of weeks and allowing them to live with you and treating them as if you, your boyfriend and your child are one family because you arent. I see a lot of these a father isnt someone who has a child a father is someone who takes care of a child false. A father is someone who has a child wether he wants anything to do with the child or not, a REAL father is someone who steps up and takes care of their child, and if there so happens to be a man that walks into your life and happens to be great with kids and treats yours well then thats awesome. But he isnt the father so stop being so stupid! He isnt your childs father until you two marry and your child is adopted by your spouse so dont be confused. Please. And dont be confused with them being the father and taking he father roll. Im sorry that so many women are selfish and dont think of their kids first. You have a child theres no more figuring yourself out or petty bullshit. You better have yourself figured out because its not about you anymore its about that child so your partying and your smoking ect is disgusting and Im sincerely sorry for you and the fact that you fail to acknowledge right from wrong yet like youre a child. A successful marriage requires falling in love many times with the same person. We worry about what a child will become tomorrow yet we forget that he is someone today.
Posted on: Thu, 17 Jul 2014 02:48:06 +0000
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