Pishamo Pen... LET ME WRITE SOMETHING SENSIBLE, its been a while........... I left Livingstone this week at 21 hours... From Monday evening till about yesterday Thursday evening i was on a serious work tour of duty inspecting our projects in southern province. i ended my inspections of various towns in southern province in Mazabuka. so i decided to just chip into lsk for a day seeing it was just an hour and half drive from my location. so am in Lusaka visiting my mom and seeing relatives, friends and work colleagues and one thing keeps coming up in all my stops: MULEUPA LILALI TATA (when are you getting married sir) not that they are wrong to ask me such, i do not dispute but i have my reservations about this......... here is what i think and purely this is my opinion, not saying its right or wrong..just saying this is my opinion... Am a christian man, and in issues of marriage i rather be guided by the bible than by my libido or by public pressure and opinions... At this point let me take a biblical point of view. we see in genesis chapter 2, the first thing that God creates is the world then the garden of Eden in which he places man and has communion with him every evening...there is no woman at this point.....it is just fellowship between God and the man...in other words before one can even start dreaming of marriage, a man must be in communion with his maker...this is absolutely essential. are you following muntu wandi........ secondly God speaks to the man, he says Work...God commands that a man must work. before you even dream of getting an erection my brothers you must have some form of work. if you are broke and lazy forbid yourself to even think of women and curse yourself when you get an erection muntu wandi. am sure even in the Zambian constitution there is a close, act cap something which says it shall be stated in the land of zambia that empty pockets shall forfeit their rights and freedom to an erection until such a time when the said party shall have found stability (do not argue i studied law) ok tukonkanyepo............... God also adds and says to the man, cultivate and bring fourth fruit....what is this telling guys like me and some other men there thinking of settling down? to cultivate means to bring fourth the good, the best in you, in others, in your work, your talents and abilities. in other words brothers, if you have not started living your potential, if you have not started maximizing your abilities, muntu wandi better stay alone. ifyakupela amafumo iyo ni nonsense mukalamba....thats being shallow and short sighted...true children are a gift but please guys dont force God to give his gifts mubu chende...do the right thing and have kids in a proper family setup.... After all this is when God said IT IS NOT GOOD FOR A MAN TO BE ALONE.....And God made Adam sleep and when he woke up there was a naked girl with nice hips and tuma small tender boobs with Brazilian hair (Eve) waiting for bwana Adam.....muntu wandi, when you have worked well pa chalo, when you have cultivated yourself, your talents and abilities, Eve akailetafye eka.....pursue excellence muntu wandi and success will follow you yeka... God only said it is not good for this niggar to be alone after the dude had been in his presence, after the niggar had worked hard and the brother had cultivated himself to the best of his abilities....So ladies hear me and hear me good, IF THAT GUY IS UNGODLY, IF HE IS LAZY, IF HE ISNT TRYING TO CULTIVATE HIMSELF BY LOOKING FOR WORK, TRYING OUT BUSINESS, GOING TO SCHOOL OR JUST TRYING, muntu wandi then look clearly at the scripture and read it with holy eyes, It is good for that brother to be alone, leave his lazy ass opo tala konawila future........problem ba gelo abengi no offence meant but tu gelo utungwi ma moko moko....they cant see when a brother is taking them for a ride or if they see they too scared of being alone and leaving his possessed ass.. Anyway i dont know about you but back to me, just because i now have a good job, drive a good car live in a nice house dont mean am ready for marriage, what if nshila kula mumano? what if am still carrying out experiments? nkale chyusha umwana wabene??? for me right now priority is to get my masters degree after then limbi olo nkasabailako pa chupo............ Ifintu fimo guys kupishamo pen muntu wandi and make those decisions when you are ready....not lelo waupa mailo uli na girlfriend kumbali or you wana return home at 24 hours everyday coz you were with the brothers making it rain muma castle nama mosi.... So Muntu wandi Pishamo pen muntu wandi and do whats right.............
Posted on: Fri, 21 Nov 2014 07:33:30 +0000
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