Questions for Michael: I know I must forgive. However I am wondering, how and when do I reach out to the one whom I am estranged with? I like to tell them that they need to learn to forgive and to let go of their anger. Should I periodically reach out and try to keep in touch or should I just stop entirely in order to let go? Answer: We Sense there is some hesitancy here to go ahead with contacting the estranged. When you contact them without thought of the outcome or attachment to the consequences, then you will know that you are doing the best thing. We would not speak to them of forgiveness; for if they want to forgive, then they will know that this is the emotion that they want- not because you suggested this emotion as something for them to try out. They are working through their experiences and you are working through your experiences. The experiences may intersect at points, but are still separate and unique experiences to each of you. Tend to your own experience as that is the one that you will be living. Your intention to have a healed relationship is love based intent. This intention carries much energy for fruition. There is no need to fear when your intention is love. Unconditional love does not see failure - only the opportunity to keep loving. Love Michael
Posted on: Wed, 25 Jun 2014 03:52:56 +0000