***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! I need help both dealing with some things. I am a young wife and mother. Me and my husband have a 5 month old and weve been together since July of last year. We have fought over everything you can imagine and it just started getting worse after we got married. We got married July of this year. So just a few months ago. Im the jealous type and my husband is a very good looking man and Im not just saying that because hes my husband. We fight over that but he tells me not to worry because he loves me and he married me and he wants to be with me. Well theres this girl. She lives about 30 minutes away. She works at our (used to be) favorite restaurant. The last two times that Ive been with him there, she has openly flirted with him and he didnt seem to care or notice. But I did because she was all about him and pretty much ignored me. Last Friday, he took me out on a date there and she was our waitress and this happened. I ignored it and told myself that hes my husband and he loves me. It started to bother me the way she talked to him and the way he talked about her later on when we got home. I expressed my feelings and concerns over the weekend. He reassured me I had nothing to worry about. On Monday, we got into a fight because he changed plans on me. He told me he wanted to go see his mom...his mom lives in the same area this girl does, so I automatically accused him. I told him I didnt trust him. We went all the rest of that day without speaking, but it was confirmed that he did go to his moms. He called me on his way home from a strange number. He told me he borrowed money from his mom to activate his new phone. I was like whatever, okay. When he got home, he acted like I didnt exist and his phone never left his hand. I waited until he fell asleep and I took his phone....I looked through it and found nothing until I got on Facebook. He left his Facebook open and the page was already on his messages. She was there. He called her pretty and said that something about her makes him sweet and he wishes he would have met her sooner. He also said that he didnt have a wife anymore when she asked about me. Im STILL devastated. We got into it over that and he told me it would never happen again and that he was sorry. She called me a couple nights ago to tell me he messaged her again...after she was blocked!! She explained everything to me and apologized and said she didnt wanna get involved. I talked to my husband about it and he told me the truth about it. But he wanted me to call her back because he was confused. Come to find out, she didnt care that we were married. She was lying to my face and trying to befriend me while behind my back, still trying to take my husband. So my husband grabbed the phone from me and cussed her out and said he never wanted to see her or talk to her again and he told me that we are never going to that restaurant again. He has been busting his ass the past few days to get me to trust him again and trying to show that he loves me. Hes gone ALL OUT on me. But Im still very deeply hurt....how do I get through this? Hes even talked to friends and both our families about this and they keep telling me to get over it and that he wants to be with me and ONLY me and hes seen the era of his ways. But its so hard....what can I do to help ease the pain?
Posted on: Sat, 15 Nov 2014 19:17:22 +0000
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