Salaam to all.. this week alone i received news from my networks of friends of the mother moving on in life, this make me so sad, my mother and my we do not have a good relationship as i m growing up, we always quarrel and all that... this is all due to tukang BATU API that live among us that make my mother always unhappy with me it was horrible actually, moving on after we both find out after so long that this batu api causes unhappiness in our life my mum and me get better and now if i dun talk to her in a day i would miss her so much... morale of the story is simple... 1. Never follow your EMOTIONS 2 Be calm and start to really question to find out the truth. 3. No matter what happen we must remain patience especially towards our parents. 4. Investigate and without any anger try to explain the situation. 5. Never engage in any hostility toward your mum. 6. Seek refuge from Allah swt against any form of fitnah. 7. Remember, your mum is a LIVING WALI, even she may be in the wrong it is our responsibility and right that she is being taken care of. Life for me become better when I took the first step to end this and thank you so much to my Sheikhs who advise me and let me see the light of truth... I seek my mum forgiveness and now she supported what I do, follow me to any majlis and always doa for my success... Hence I m not worried abt failures anymore or anyone hated me and wish me bad luck cos I have my mum to doa for me ... I am grateful that I hv been shown the truth and my love to my mum have never been bigger and yeah she is coming to my house tomorrow, so now can eat mums cooking.. Life is short, take care of your parents and you can be sure the favor will be return to you by your children, even if they wrong you forgive them, even if they hate you, love them... for once they leave you, you can never replace them, they are priceless and irreplaceable, I am glad to received hidayah and i have never regretted a bit ... YOU need to get better, lower your ego and pride, when you get better naturally your surrounding will get better with you... I have only one mother and I love her so much...love them before its too late...syed d jailani Director The Green Apple Project Pte Ltd - You can only be better...
Posted on: Tue, 28 Jan 2014 10:39:18 +0000