Senthil R Murugan. Appa says we do not even know what kind emotion we let out, and so we don’t understand life response too. If we can name our emotions correctly it is half won-for example-we understand anger as irritation, irritation as annoyance, annoyance as dejection, dejection as rejection etc. Jealousy is still is in our genes from primordial and animal instincts as becoming head of a group. Here too we have to first understand our emotion whether it is jealousy or envy. Jealousy involves the wish to keep what one has (prestige, status, upmanship, feeling of importance, fear of losing attention, threat to or position etc, we may have ten cars. But if next house person buys one we feel lost in any one of the above). Envy is the longing to get what one does not have. ( when we don’t have a car and next house person buys a car. Our feeling is based on our inability to get that as we wished, but he got it. We can see this in children behaviour easily. When elder boy don’t like newly born sister, it is jealousy. The same having a enmity with next house boy as he bought new bicycle and prided over it , it is envy. Appa has written about how a daughter didn’t liked Mother long hair, how a dad didn’t liked intelligent son etc., Appa says, analyse your jealousy / envy based on – capacity, capability, goal, desires, you wanted to accomplish. Appa says in jealousy more than rising oneself, one has a greater urge to crush another. It only strengthens the victim to give you more jealousy and envy. so one needs knowledge of the process of creation of jealousy or envy. That can weaken the reaction or emotion, but cannot eliminate it. First concentrate on origin of your emotion or ill will. Consciously try changing it into compassion or good will or expansiveness. At this point only consecration to Mother is possible.
Posted on: Thu, 21 Aug 2014 15:37:53 +0000
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