So I have a question and most of my friends no its been more than a few yrs since I wanted a relationship or have been in one so for the more experienced ppl cause I just honestly dnt know how to be or wat the rules r in the beginning.. Im soo used to my routine my way, my life & I do not by any means have any problems making room & opening up my life & changing things that single ppl do while Im in the process of getting to know sum1 that I really want in my life.. Finally I want it to be him & Im hoping so bad but while we r getting to know each other better to see if we feel that way about each other how does trust work? We dnt owe each other anything but I think we both want to spend our time seeing if we have sumthing great enough to come together.. We both have children so we really got to b sure about each other because failing relationships is not an option for either of us because our children r our lives.. So we r on the same page. But do u have to earn each others trust while dating or should everyone b given trust until they do sumthing to make u believe otherwise? And very serious because I dnt know.. I have always given trust 1st with friends because it feels like a punishment for me to not trust ppl just because others have ruined it but all I can compare it to anymore is friends because its just been too long.. Is that the healthy way to approach dating sum1 ur hoping to bring into ur life or should it b earned while getting to know each other? Wen I think of him I dnt feel right thinking he should earn my trust I feel like I dnt have any right not trusting him because why should he have to earn anything from me.. Ughh my head is absolutely spinning lately. Its just been too long & my life reflects my single independent status and Ive been making all necessary changes all wk so I can atleast commit to spending my free time getting to know him better.. I deserve that & so does he. But I just didnt realize how closed off I had my life and set in a single lifestyle I was but Im aware & Ive been doing the right thing to make him feel welcomed & more important than anything else right now.. And it wasnt easy because wat if hes not doing those things, or not on the same page, or wat if I get rejected.. I NVR want to feel that but I need more in life & my children deserve it also so its a risk finallyyyy ready to take accepting the consequences & fully aware.. Im just me & no1s really evr fully stepped into my life.. But Im made a lot of changes this wk just so Im available to move forward.. Id b really blessed.. He treats me so special and is not into games & will show me hes thinking of me all day long & Im ready to give him that back but more because a woman learns to appreciate being treated special, showed attention,to feel thought of thru out my days recently and by sum1.. I could really use sum advice of COURSE I know my posts r suooperrr loll but my questions t true
Posted on: Fri, 31 Oct 2014 10:16:33 +0000
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