Some Common mistakes in Relationship. 1. Clinging Too Much Everyone needs their own personal space. If you love your partner you should trust them enough to give them their space and not try to invade every second of their life. This isn’t the case when you’re married. Marriage is a blessing and after marriage you and your partner share the same life together. But when you’re in a relationship, you can’t suddenly take over their life unless it’s a mutual decision. Don’t make them feel suffocated and don’t make them regret the decision of being with you. 2. Being Jealous Of Each Other Relationships should never have the element of jealousy involved. You love your partner, you are not supposed to be jealous if they have a better job than you or a better social circle than you. You are supposed to be their strength and make them bigger in life rather than complain about how you can’t compete with them. It’s not a competition. Your partner will do everything in their power to make you a stronger person and you should do the same. 3. Listening To Others More Than Your Partner Bringing a third person in the middle of your relationship won’t always end well. If you are facing a problem with your partner and you start asking the world for help it will obviously create a lot of trust issues between you and your partner. Couples Therapy is different, they are trained professionals and their only job is to make things work between you two. But when it comes to friends, everyone will give you their own opinion and it might make your mind think in too many directions which leads to over-thinking. And we all know where over-thinking takes us. 4. Leaving Arguments Unsolved We’ve seen this happen a lot around us and it has happened to us as well. When an argument is left unsolved in the middle, it won’t go away. It will keep growing and come out in the form of a huge fight which will eventually lead to break up. Whenever any problem arises, make sure you solve it then and there. If you forgive your partner’s mistakes, forget their mistakes and never bring them up in future arguments, it will only mean you never forgave them in the first place. 5. Taking It Too Easy Some couples start off amazing and slowly lose the spark they had. It could be because they don’t find each other as interesting as they did before, it could be because of someone else being in their mind, it could be because of a lot of reasons but it shouldn’t happen in the first place. Keep the romance alive and be the same partner you were when you first fell in love with them. Keep the romance going and make the memories stronger. 6. A Lot Of Giving And No Getting I’ve seen a lot of relationships in which one of the two do as much as they can to make their partner happy while the partner forgets everything they did for them in the middle of every argument and every rocky phase. Relationships are all about give and take. If you don’t cherish your partner for all the effort and time they spend on you, they won’t be around for too long because someone else will make them feel appreciated. Start giving back, love them the way they love you or even more. Cherish them before it’s too late.
Posted on: Tue, 02 Sep 2014 14:06:35 +0000
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