Some people don’t work out together. They have habits or beliefs that make it impossible to co-habitate with the person they love. There isn’t a couple out there that loves every little thing about one another.Sure, they may find certain things cute or unique, but they don’t love them; they simply ACCEPT them. There are some people who have such habits, tendencies, or thinking patterns that really do make them incompatible with the other person.The two may love each other fully, because remember, love isn’t rational, yet not be able to live and deal with each other forever. This is why relationships require COMPROMISE.You’re not going to love everything about the person you are with, but you love enough about him or her to live with the things you don’t love. Not all people are willing to, or even able to, compromise. Sometimes it just doesn’t work, regardless of what our emotions tell us.Compromising, of course, is a CHOICE You either choose to make it work or you choose not to. I believe this fully. As long as something doesn’t go against your nature, over time you can make it work. But there are still some cases when compromising isn’t enough.Sometimes there are other reasons two people cannot and will not ever be together. In fact, this is usually the deciding factor of whether or not two lovers will be capable of spending their lives together: if they are able to FORGIVE and FORGET .Because love is as intense an emotion as one gets, it occasionally leads us to make poor choices – choices that are hurtful to the ones we love.They may be poor calls of judgment, lies we told or things we said. When it comes to love, our pasts haunt us. We move from relationship to relationship, hauling all that LUGGAGE we managed to accumulate in our previous relationship.Because lovers who can’t work together don’t like to accept this fact, they have a tendency of breaking up and getting back together repeatedly.Each time they take a break from each other, they come back and try to start fresh. But the problem is, they’re still carrying all that LUGGAGE. And sooner or later, they start to unpack. When love scars, it cuts deep. The pain isn’t easily forgotten and usually cannot be willfully forgotten. When you hurt the woman you love enough, she won’t come back to you. And because you still love her, you wouldn’t take her back even if she asked you to.You don’t trust yourself not to hurt her again and even if you did, she wouldn’t trust you not to hurt her again. RELATIONSHIPS are built on TRUST and you shattered her trust. Therefore Its best you stay apart Because she will never heal and No matter how much you apologize she just will never fully heal. But that doesn’t mean you will ever stop loving her. I will love you until the day I die,but spending the majority of my Life separate and apart . And so is the darker side of love. #always think about you
Posted on: Tue, 21 Oct 2014 09:51:29 +0000
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