Something I do not understand. When you have someone in your life who lies to you, consistently, and alternately denies it and admits it, how do you best function? Obviously you do your best to live your own life, be responsible for your own self as much as possible, but how do you determine what is truth and lie? I know from extensive experience I have had to play detective in my own life in order to push enough to get to the truth. And the truth has had devastating consequences on myself and my family. But here is where I am getting lost - am I not allowed to ask for help? I have had to turn for help twice. Once, to someone I believed loved me, an in-law who could tell me if I was being lied to about an extremely important financial transaction which would affect me and my daughter, and I needed to know if I was being lied to so I could take care of it another way. No help offered. No answer. As though I was wrong to ask ... ? Or the bad person somehow. (Yes, I was being lied to. I was told it was my fault because I think I am better than the person who lied.) And now, again, I have turned for help to a stranger to me who holds the answer about whether or not I am being lied to, so I can determine what I need to do to help myself and my daughter financially. And, actually, she technically owes me the information as I own the product being sold to her. But, no. No answer. Again, this person chose to just communicate with the person who always lies to me, so I am in the dark. My question is, can I not get help? Why would someone refuse to simply say Yes, this was paid or No, it was not. Or, Yes, that happened or NO, what you were told is not true. Why would someone feel telling a person the truth is the wrong thing to do???? I am lost as to peoples moral compass.
Posted on: Sat, 11 Oct 2014 03:23:48 +0000
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