The biggest crock of shit relationship advice you will ever hear is about avoiding people who have just had a break-up or divorce. THOSE are the only people being true to themselves. THOSE are the only people enduring a hardship in order to find what they truly want. THOSE are the only people looking through their sights & aiming at a target they have been missing. THOSE are the people who are sick of waiting, sick of being lied to, or sick of not progressing. Yes, some of those people are hurt really badly & acting like idiots. Yes, some of those people are deploying every avoidance technique they know. And, yes, some of those people are going to have baggage, unkempt emotions, or tantrums. But, NONE of those people are acting any worse than the people already in the singles scene. NONE of those people have bottled up, denied, & pretended to be a whole other person as long as the people in the dating circle have. They are better. They are less hardened. They are less procedural about going through each & every suitor or easy opportunity. So, I say, go for the rebounders. Go for the heartbroken ones. Go for the people who have been hurt. They still embrace their emotions. They still act on their gut. They still stand for something. They still want TRUE love... not what they have had. Anyone whos been single too long has learned to put their wants in the backseat. They’ve practiced going through the motions, pretending to be interested in someone theyre not, or pretending to be someone theyre not. You dont want those people. You dont want to learn their bad habits. You dont want their bad advice. Do what you set out to do. Find someone to love. Find someone who knows about love. Find someone whos been practicing love. Find someone who knows what love ISNT. Dont settle for someone who doesnt remember the last time they fell in love. Dont fall for someone whos over wanting love. Find someone who cant live without it... not even for a little bit.
Posted on: Thu, 05 Jun 2014 16:16:37 +0000
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