The one worth your tears will not make you cry & certainly not leave you alone when hurting but will be your rock of understanding, a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen with comforting arms to hold you. The one who apologizes is not weak but rather usually cares more about the relationship. Too many men are so selfish they cant see past themselves & be a rock for their partner. God designed for us to be partners & love each other & that doesnt mean being together yet isolated. No man is worth the tears. & if you are crying & he cant even take the time to understand your pain, to get out of himself, it may be time to move on. Every religions book has a version of let not the sun go down on your wrath... How can you sleep while your loved one is hurting? You might ask yourself again what love is... The longer you let things simmer, soon they will just boil over & when this happens, part of the substance is lost that cannot be regained. It causes permanent damage to the relationship by creating solidarity not building unity, causing more pain, not comfort. The bad times should bring us closer but if we dont choose to consciously pay attention & be there for each other we grow apart & the relationship turns cold, thereby dying. Each if us chooses our actions, & every action has a consequence. Being stubborn & prideful leads to loneliness / & what a empty way to spend lifes
Posted on: Wed, 15 Jan 2014 17:53:13 +0000
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