There are occasions when a person cannot take a decision and says go with the flow.This does not mean that he or she is incapable of taking a decision ,it only means that perhaps the timing is wrong or the system is not conducive. There are many complex issues involved in taking a decision we must simplify the issue and try not to complicate it. Discussions often go off track and steer away from the main topic under discussion. Sometimes it is because of a person’s talkative nature and sometimes it is done intentionally. In most cases it has been found that they try to infilterate groups to spoil the issue at hand or to make us take a wrong decision. I urge martial artists not to rely on anyone to take a decision if you cannot take it then let time decide for you. If you ask for advise or assistance is an issue they will not help you they will tell you exactly the opposite of what you need to do. We must learn to rely on ourselves and work towards a decision in any issue ourselves. When we put our best foot forward in the attempt rest assured the help whether from known or unknown sources will come and it will be genuine help. They come to talk to us only to steal ideas or to steal identity.If it neither of the two then then they need information that will help them put up a fake or a clone and without information they cannot do this. If we have people who do not like us they will run to them to from a group to work against us. They will ask us who we like and who we don’t like and then make sure my inevitable chance that we only get to intract with those we dislike. They have the constant method of logging in to call claiming to be from a Company where you are to say get a job confirmation and one day they will call and say ‘yes we wills end you the offer letter ,’ ‘another day they will call and say that the location of the job has been changed,again after a few days they will call and say they do not want you,then they will after a few weeks call again and say that they may be considering you. This is only to get someone to hope and bring it crashing down on the person. Another area is money. If we are to receive funds from a source they will do a voice overlap after having tapped your phone and say that the money is coming tomorrow then they will call and say the money is being sent two days later,then again …this carries on thus raising hopes and bring it crashing down ,it will be done over and over and over again to harass mentally and destabilize a person mentally …we must not raise hopes when someone says these things but only keep a steady mind and work from other sources also. ‘Sending’ and ‘have sent’ are completely different scenarios.’Giving and have given’ are different scenarios. When we are sent then only should be raise our hope for the purpose it is meant, when we are given only then should we raise our hope and acknowledge not before.This repeated battering of hope makes a normal person acidic and negatively aggressive. Things like’he or she told me for sure’ or ‘ but he /she told me ‘ are very common occurrences let’s not bite the bait and be practical and realistic and check and recheck on our own to get the real position.
Posted on: Wed, 11 Sep 2013 07:30:02 +0000
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