Too many people judge and form friendships based on how another dresses or what theyre dressed in. In my view, this is immature and proves that you dont even know what youre looking for in anyone, let alone a friend. For me, friendship takes time and trust to form with all prejudice set aside (even if a person is dressed in rags it shouldnt matter). Still, people forge false friendships a lot more then not. Is this the reason for all the drama, fights, disloyalty and jealousy? Just like rushing into a romantic relationship, real friendships take time and a mutual understanding of another person. I see too many of these so called friendships, and theyre just disasters waiting to happen. For me it is hard to even forge a friendship because a lot of people just do it short term. Either they find you amusing (at the time), want something from you, or want to use you in one way or another. Time has taught me well (too well), and I can spot these types of people very quickly. That doesnt mean Ill be nasty to them or not be friendly. It simply means that if he/she really wants to be a friend, theyll have to be consistent in maturity and the responsibility of understanding how to treat another persons inner light (if you will), respectfully. If not, there is no sense in creating or bringing cruelty and drama into yours or someone elses life.
Posted on: Wed, 20 Nov 2013 04:07:23 +0000
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