Uncle Mike sir, I met my girlfriend at a mutual friends party 3 months ago and it took me about a month of talking, texting and a few dates to a restaurant near her place of work to conclude that I want to marry her. I told her of my intention and she said lets take it one step at a time. Few days later, she came to my house and asked if we could talk. I thought she wanted to end the relationship and I was scared because she is very beautiful and also my kind of woman. But instead, she shocked me with a confession. She told me that she was already two months pregnant prior to our meeting and just wanted to let me know why she didnt accept my proposal. She also said that only her mother knows and had encouraged her not to abort it; they are yet to tell her father who is on sabbatical abroad. That evening, we ended making love for the first time. uncle, this girl is the sweetest lady I have ever laid my hands on. Ever since then, every single day that passes, my love for her grows, but I am confused about the fact that she is pregnant. She said that the father of her unborn baby lives abroad and it was just a one night stand and he doesnt know that she is pregnant as she didnt tell him or have his contact. She has told me how much she loves me, but also said that she understands if I dont want to go in with the proposal. Sir, I trust your wisdom and the way you handle issues. What do you think I should do? Thanks. ADVICE: My dear friend, I want to be brief and straight to the point. First, I think you are a good man. I also think that you have become part of the unborn childs life, spiritually by making love to its mother; making love to a pregnant woman has its own unique taste and sweetness. The girl in question is also a very good girl and I will leave you to make out the reason yourself why I said she is a good woman. But I must say that, if she were a bad woman, her baby would become your baby in 7 months as a premature, born two months early- you are not a doctor and she alone knows the father of her child. So she is a good woman. I like her. She seems to know who she is and what she wants, as well as being a forthright person. Now, let me just congratulate you for your wife to be and also for your unborn child because, from the moment that child is born, you have a chance to be its father- from day one. Dont mess it up. In addition, you should not overlook or bargain away your added advantage when you want to pay her bride price. It is good for you that her mother knows, Encourage them to carry their father along NOW, so that he too can understand the whole situation and the need to wedata aka na ego isi nwanyi. In other words, they SHOULD REDUCE THE BRIDE PRICE FOR YOU and also be sensitive and reasonable, with the demands associated with in laws. Its your luck, not your fault. Dont let it slide! Once again, good luck and I look forward to your invitation. God bless. (MIU, August,2014).
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 10:26:16 +0000
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