What does your DNA have to do with loving one an other? I agree with that mainly cause even though I know that my biological parents and my family love me I know that those who arent biological but, either adopted cause they needed a home and a family of their own or close friends wind up addressing one an other as a family adopt one an other which is sweet and if you actually think carefully in some ways your extended family by marriage in some ways are just like your adopted love ones cause there is no DNA that matches but, the love is so grand and tight it doesnt really matter how long ago they had loved you as part of their family. Look all around you there are so many moms and dads , grandparents, aunties, uncles, sisters,brothers, cousins, nieces and nephews and even God-Children who may or may not have the same DNA and to me its just the same as saying some people such as the parents can have the same form of parenthood that requires love 24/7. If you ask me how many families I have including parents, uncles,aunties,cousins, brothers, sisters, nieces ,nephews and God-children , step cousins, step parents, step aunties and step uncles & grandparents etc... Well biological or none-- I dont see people as step of any kind even if others do- I dont see them as my half, or partial blood related to me or not. Rather we carry the same DNA and Blood or not at all-- What I see is simply my friends/my family in person, at facebook, other homes, at work and the churches and other places I may come and go from. A family isnt always DNA a Family is those who are there through out the good times and through out the bad times. A family is those who forget those unkind words and things you have done in the past that had truly had hurt as you do the same too. A family doesnt try to point out the DNA cause does it matter if you are my blood relatives or people I just simply admire ,love and feel so close to no matter how many times we are with one an other why shall we become jealous of the family we had put together which can be a bunch for us to enjoy. Look at my life I have my co-workers who are my family of moms, grandparents,sisters, brother,auntie etc..things too and I love them and we dont always have to enter one anothers home to be a family-We got each other and the phones and e-mail to reach out to one an other. Look at my life I attend two great churches full of wonderful people I address as my family.Look at my life I have so many great people here at facebook I do address as my family too and of course there is my family and other close friends who love and like me for me 24/7. I never feel left out when before I felt like an outsider a simple outcast and meeting everyone through the Dear Lord got me where I am today in a world of peace,love, forgiveness and understanding for life. Being with you all during holidays, at work etc. places makes me happy and at times sad too cause I hate saying goodbye and counting those hours till we must greet one an other again. Sometimes I am too darn clingy and mushy with hugs and kisses only cause I love to greet everyone the same way I wish to be greeted like. Sometimes Im clingy cause I consider being among you all as a piece of my safe haven and my security blanket and when you and I fight, get hurt, get ill or travel I feel more scared when we are torn apart. Cause I feel lost when we cant have that special moment when I over eat, get so sick or maybe drunk etc.. I just simply just remember you as the last person with me & suddenly falling asleep side by side you just hearing you breathing or even hearing you breathing and snoring knowing that you are still okay and with me. You didnt leave me but, kept me safe in your embrace as we had snuggle up even more like we had for life -Forget whos home or room we had been in last or if we had pillows or blankets or simple body heat keeping us warm and safe anyway. I consider everyone my family no matter who is single or married if I feel like I need you -I would e-mail you, call you, text you or show up out of the blue on your door step cause maybe you are the only one who can understand my matters and relate to me. A family doesnt have to have the same parenthood DNA cause if you ask me how many moms and dads etc.. love ones think of me as their own daughter, their own niece,their own cousin or their own sister or grandchild-Believe me I have tons of families and even when I am sadden when many great love ones leave this world -I know that they are my angels soaring in the big blue sky in Heaven protecting me big time. I know that I am never really truly alone even if there are times I feel alone,lost, rejected or abandon. I know that I have God and my family from all over the world loving me and saving me as I walk up the uphill climbs through out my life trying to figure out what is next in store for I. My family is everyone I want to keep in touch with & my family is you all. I wish we can celebrate all of our holidays and birthdays together too bad things now of days arent cheap cause I would drive and fly out to your own town for those who dont live so close to me. I would want to have a movie night etc.. things with you and if I wind up leaning on your shoulder and fall asleep its only cause I love you and cause Im so sleepy but, know I am so safe with you when others arent there with I or Im coming down with the bug and I cant budge either and I feel safe with you there with me. Im a clingy bug, not a parent, just an auntie, an older cousin, an older sister & a God-Mother to some while to others Im an auntie, a God-mother, a younger adopted sister, a younger adopted niece, a younger adopted cousin and to others an adopted older sister etc.. What ever it is -Its all so very true. Im a child of Gods who has grown up into a young lady and I have been blessed with so many titles and so much love to go around with you all. No need to be jealous of me Im your family member rather by blood or not at all or maybe perhaps both.If you think carefully everyone you see on t.v. or on the movie screens are family on screen and off screen and they arent really blood related but, show the same love as I would indeed with you all who arent blood related to me cause I see you as my family and I feel it inside of my heart and inside of my soul. You dont have to have to be all blood related or to share the same DNA to say I care and I love you. A family is people wanting to know those in their life even more -A family is those who love spending time together and cheering up those who need a hug or kiss every now in then. A Family doesnt have to expect money when going out for a meal, foods, drinks,rent dues ,gifts etc.. A family just does those things when they love you. They visit you at your home or the hospital despite how they may truly feel when they indeed care about you. A family makes a sacrifice when they care about you like driving you to work, like driving you to church , like driving you to a friends home,like driving you to the doctors or lending you some cash or even a car for a few hours or a few days even. A family doesnt always want to know the details, the issue all the time or want to solve every single matter 24/7 with you but, a family will always love you and guide you when you are in danger, in pain, are ill or have a issue that no one cause solve. A Family at times wants you to pay for things but,then in the long run they end up saying dont worry at all about the price, its my pleasure to treat you. A family understands you when you are struggling with your own problems and they respect you for that. They simple are there even when you had no idea that they were planning to pay you a visit. A family shows up and so does your close friends. People like that just pop in one by one like sweets & sometimes its nice but,sometimes when you are heading out for the day or for the night you feel as if you shall bring them along to make the outing more interesting too and you know its actually great indeed the more the better the events become too. So do you have to be blood related to me or say oh gee my answers drag on like a chapter or two each day. Does it really matter -Im someones miracle baby and angel. If they love you then you know that you can honestly love them back too. A Family can huge or small its your calling but, my family is you and your whole entire family and if some of you are already a part of my family just remember how we had become together and love me as much as I love you forever. A Family isnt DNA A Family is those that come together and care & want to address you as part of your family even if some of you may be just friends in the Dear Lords eyes we are His family and I am so blessed to have you all in my life. My family is you and I hope that you will consider I and my family yours & if you have a problem with some of my love ones dont worry you dont have to love them in return but, if you like them its all good with me. Just know that Im your angel for life and I wont step down nor step away from you and not abandon you unless there is an issue that neither one of us can ever resolve or forgive right a way. Im the type of person who will take you back cause I believe in a million chances and I believe in love among us all . Thanks Facebook Family/Facebook Friends just being a part of my life and my family and DNA is required at all just the never ending tears and smiles among us, the hugs and kisses is all that I want & the love that you had shared from day one to remain the same form of love for keeps no matter how much I may of changed in health, in weight, in age etc.. I want what ever form of close tight bond we had then to be the one until the very end of our time on earth and to simply spend more time together in person and online too. Sharing things for life cause we are good people connected together for a good logical reason & I love you so very much. Having you is a good thing- A blessing sent down to me from God. I Love You. As mushy as I am its all good because Im a good person and Im raised by great parents too and yes,I still live with them too. :]
Posted on: Sat, 09 Nov 2013 18:20:56 +0000
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