Whats darkening the shine of your aura,discolouring the jewel that is your soul and changing you from beauty to beast,from loyal friend to hater and enemy?Everyone does something they regret be it involuntary or plotted and I`m thinking the reason is along the lines of its more of a pre-programmed tactical mental/physical comfort and/or control edge combined with oppertunistic chance.Most of the unfortunate events associated with my past friends that I no longer visit or contact were due to myself moving,them moving or the friendship amicably fading as it does when two people travel two different paths...Its made me aware of the parasitic or remora type characteristics people will develop when they are just takers and feel they are`nt capitalising so much from the association or the change in respect,personality and direction when out of metamorphesis a butterfly emerges from its coccoon and suddenly has a completely different existance.Its made me very aware of the importance of having dependabIe,good natured preferrably 3/4 pre-occupied(lol), concerned friends.But the human need of congregating/socialising is also related to when homo sapians first walked the earth and gathered in tribes to survive mainly thanks to homo erectus ...Infidelity,I believe that your partners integrity,connection and invested imput is far more important than either partners future possible short lived crush or brief infatuation.UNLESS agreed that the relationship has soured or become stagnant and they are unsuited to eachother and the new attraction is a more rewarding,suitable prospect.This should be revealed the very moment those feelings changed there mind and they have made a final decision out of respect and concern.If changes or alterations(depending upon the nature)are implemented and the couple have re-ignited the flame then its the individuals choice to decide if they wish to recommit to the evolved relationship.The UNLESS should be only reserved for people who either metamorphesised during the relationship or were never serious nor cared and as an invited diner were only stripping what ever goodness of the feast remained at their disposal.And people who disguise there lack of concern,disarm and then disown those they recieved support from but have suddenly secretly despised are a deadly species within the species.They are callous,faceless oppertunists who dont have the ammunition and nerve for a full frontal attack so squirm along in life switching allegiance when it suits ...*The two species are repulsed by each other and certain rivalry will ensue to which battle instincts will kick in if they remain in eachothers vicinity..(attenborough flashback)lol.The mere fact that people know the consequences of being untruthful with intent,deliberately sabotage an unwanted association embarrassingly,or harbour ill intent with a smile and choose to continue to do so is enough of a warning to calculate they belong with some one else from another tribe and they dislike you,will harm you and to get them out of your life immediately with no empathy...Maybe whats darkening the shine of your aura is your inability to be yourself or your own dislike of yourself as you are easily lead astray and change depending on whom your with.You cant envisage the normal things you do as normal even when others believe they`re better than most people can do or you pick up bad habits from a bad brief friend then the next b.b.f becoming confused and less of who you want to be.Many people absorb and communicate,dress,behave,react and live like the friend there with the most and usually its brief but if not then it can effect other relationships and when the friendship ends,pretty soon the absorption ends as does the associations of a few casualties along the way.Eventually things settle and people find and return to themselves again and become better people to there future friends,partners but not on all occasions.On some occasions people will research then redevelop and repair what revealed,unravelled there devious deeds and polish their routine for the next unsuspecting gentle person....*Note:these are my own perceptions/experiences and should by NO means be the answer to your own personal affairs but may guide if your circumstances are similiar .....nonsense time:Can your aura and appearance be darkened/altered by chosen bad behaviour? Do auras radiate at higher levels when good behaviour is chosen.What the hell is an aura...loll?....
Posted on: Sat, 03 Aug 2013 16:36:16 +0000
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