When people are seeking new relationships, they often modify their personalities. They amplify and show off their most socially acceptable qualities, and they tone down the more unusual parts of themselves, especially the parts that other people might not like. (...) If you haven’t learned this already, you’ll eventually discover that your most rejection-worthy qualities are also your most attractive qualities. Whether someone is repulsed or attracted just depends on whether they share your desires and interests or not. (...) The benefits of being shamelessly yourself massively outweigh the drawbacks. What are the main drawbacks? Perhaps some mean messages sent your way. And the benefits? The best relationships of your life. (...) What’s the alternative anyway? If you hide your most interesting qualities, you’ll only succeed at surrounding yourself with weak matches. Then what? Spend the rest of your years pretending you actually like those people. That doesn’t sound particularly intelligent. stevepavlina/blog/2014/11/ridiculously-rewarding-relationships/ Durf jij jezelf helemaal te laten zien aan een ander?
Posted on: Tue, 18 Nov 2014 07:58:17 +0000
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