YOU LADIES HAVE TO BE CAREFUL WITH THESE MEN. ONE CHICK CRIED, YOU ARE CHEATING ON ME WITH THAT WOMAN! YOU ARE VERY STUPID, IMBWA IWE! GALU ALIBE NZELU! MEANWHILE THE CHICK SHE WAS CLAIMING HE WAS CHEATING ON HER WITH IS HIS WIFE, KEKEKEKE!!!!, “I SAW YOU HOLD HER HAND WHILE WALKING, SHE IS EVEN PRREGNANT!” HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! YOU SAW HIS WIFE MAMA. A WIFE CHEATING WITH HER HUSBAND? KEKEKEKE!!! HOW BIZZARE. THE PROBLEM WITH YOU LADIES IS THAT GOODIES AND GOOD LIFE BLINDS YOU TOO MUCH. THE GUY COMES WITH FLUSHY AND FUNCY RIDE, BLING BLING, I MEAN THE GUY IS ALL SWAGGED UP AND YOU GET CONFUSED, “THIS IS THE MAN I WANT”. CROOKED MEN ARE CLEVER, THEY KNOW TOO MUCH FORMALITIES WOULD GIVE THEM AWAY SO THEY LET THEIR MONEY TALK, YOU TRY TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH TO ASK, HE SHUTS IT UP WITH A PIECE OF PIZZA, YOU TRY AGAIN HE PUTS SAMSUNG GALAXY S6 IN YOUR MOUTH MPAKA ZIIIIIII…………ALL YOU START DOING IS CHEW AND CHEW, BE HAPPY AND MERRY. I WAS TELLING A CERTAIN LADY WHO WAS COMPLAINING THAT SHE IS GETTING OLD BUT HAS NOT YET FOUND THE RIGHT MAN, CHECKED HER WALL, SHE POSTED SOME PICTURES OF HERSELF AND SOME MAN SEATED ON TOP OF A RANGE ROVER SPORT BUSY DRINKING. I LOOKED CLOSELY AT THE GUY. I RECOGNISED HIM, MY FRIEND AND FORMER COURSEMATE AT UNZA WHO FLOPPED IN THE SECOND YEAR SCHOOL OF NATURAL SCIENCES BUT RESTARTED HIS BACHELOR’S DEGREE FROM FIRST YEAR UNDER SCHOOL OF HUMANITIES. HE GRADUATED WITH A DEGREE IN LAW, WENT TO ZIALE AND NOW HE IS PRACTISING. THE GUY LIVES BIG LIFE! HE HAS MARRIED TWO WOMEN WITH PROPER MARRIAGE CERTIFICATES, ONE WOMAN WITH NO CERTIFICATE AND COUPLE OF OTHER CONCUBINES. A LAWYER!? I MIND MY OWN BUSINESS SO I DIDN’T TELL THIS LADY THE HISTORY OF THE DUDE, “TAKO, I APPRECIATE YOUR POSTS ON ZE, THEY ARE REALLY HELPFUL. IF ALL THINGS GO WELL, AM LIKELY TO GET MARRIED NOW BECAUSE THE MAN I HAVE FOUND SEEM TO BE SERIOUS”, SHE MEANT THE SAME GUY. IN MY HEART I WAS LIKE, “YOU ARE YET TO HAVE ANOTHER DISAPPOINTEMENT”. SO I ASKED HER, “DO YOU KNOW THE MAN WELL? I MEAN WHERE HE LIVES, HIS RELATIVES, WHERE HE WORKS…….? APART FROM HAVING FUN DRIVING ALL OVER ZAMBIA WHILE DRINKING, WHAT ELSE DO YOU DO KNOW ABOUT HIM”. SHE JUST TOLD ME THAT ALL THEY DO TOGETHER IS HAVE FUN WITH FRIENDS. AND THEY MOVE IN GROUPS, LIKE RANGE ROVERS WITH FRIENDS RIDING BIG MERCS AND BIMAS (NOT THOSE CHEAP G-STRING BMW). I UNDERSTOOD WHY SHE HAS NOT YET FOUND A MAN YET; MISPLACED PRIORITIES. A MONTH LATER SHE CAME TELLING ME THAT THE GUY IS A CHEAT, LOL. THEN I TOLD HER THE TRUTH BECAUSE SHE HAS FOUND OUT ON HER OWN FIRST. IF THIS IS HOW YOU GONNA GO ABOUT FINDING A SERIOUS MAN THEN YOU DOING IT THE WRONG WAY. MOST MEN WHO SPOIL YOU WITH TOO MUCH GOODIES AND A LOT OF FUN BUT NO QUIET TIME TO DISCUSS ANYTHING IMPORTANT IN LIFE JUST WANT FUN SO BETTER TAKE THEM LIKE THAT. DON’T HOPE FOR SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS WITH SUCH MEN. QUIET OFTEN MEN WHO ARE SERIOUS WITH LONG TERM REAL LOVE COMMITMENT COME IN AWAY THAT IS LESS ROMANTIC. WHY? BECAUSE THEY BEGIN FIRST BY TRYING TO KNOW YOU WHICH COULD BE IRRITATING OR BORING FOR YOU. THEY TRY TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU LIVE, WHERE YOU WORK, WHAT YOU HAVE DONE IN LIFE, YOUR INTERESTS AND HOBBIES, WHAT YOU THINK OR FEEL ABOUT CERTAIN THINGS IN LIFE……I MEAN THEY ARE JUST INTERESTED IN KNOWING YOU…BORING. HE TAKES YOU OUT ONCE IN WHILE BUT NOT OFTEN..HE IS BORING……HE TALKS ABOUT HIS PLANS AND HE ASKS ABOUT YOUR PLANS TOO…BORING…….IN YOUR HEART YOU ARE LIKE, “SHIT! THIS MAN IS BORING, WHEN ARE WE EVER GOING TO HAVE REAL FUN!” USE YOUR BRAIN, ITS NOT ABOUT OUTWARD BEAUTY. IF ITS REALLY SERIOUS LOVE COMMITMENT LIKE MARRIAGE THAT YOU WANT, YOU BETTER CHANGE THE TACTIC.
Posted on: Mon, 22 Sep 2014 13:27:14 +0000
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