# pls help me am in a confused state My name is HELEN Am 28yrs I live in river-state with my grand- mum 4months ago i met a guy online We became friends He calls me everyday Chat n we were very fond of each other We started dating n he promised me marriage Last month we arranged to meet face2face He invited me to lagos He picked me up from the park n lodged me in a hotel (very cheap-dirty) I asked him why not his house he said his mum came from the village He comes to the hotel very early in the morning We stay from morning till afternoon Then he will leave n come in the evening and later leave @ night That was how we were for the 3days i spent On the forth day he did not show up The hotel management asked me if we wanted to keep the room i said no (Since i was suppose to leave that day) I was leaving that day I called him more than 200times he refused to pick Sent sms he did not reply But when i went to the business center to call him He picked it but immediately he heard my voice he hang the phone That was when i knew he had abandoned me in the hotel I was thinking maybe something happened to him that stopped him from coming to see me I became confuse n frustrated I called my friend in warri n told her my situation She told me she has a friend in lag who is a youth corper But she dont know the area the person is living She later called the corper n she accepted to help me But unfortunately her area was far from where i was and I was down on transportation So i sold one of my phones I sold it for 4thousand naira Spent 1500naira on transportation to her place 2days later my friend sent me 5thousand naira to travel back All this while the guy i came to visit never called When i got back to port i tried calling him still no response so i let him be Many days i could not eat I fell sick becos i love him So gradually i try to forget him Last week i saw a text message on my phone from him Saying he is sorry that he was broke then and dont have money to give me that is why he acted that way that i should forgive him He even went as far as using my picture as his profile pix on facebook n writing apology messages to me on whatsapp and facebook Pls my dear Nigerian woman help me I like the way u have been helping others i still love this guy What do i do? He even said he wants to marry me that he will marry me if i accept him back Help me pls am not getting any younger I want to settle down. #Over to ya all!# Pls learn from dz story and what is уσυя advice to dz lady)
Posted on: Fri, 22 Nov 2013 20:55:11 +0000
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