-Some love tips for us- **How to Make Your Love Relationship Work** 1.Figure out if your relationship is worth saving. The sad truth is that many relationships have passed their expiration date--if you try to save them, youll just end up getting hurt. -If one or both of you have a history of being unfaithful to each other, then the damage you have done may be beyond repair. -If you find yourself constantly attracted to other people, or even fantasizing about dating another person, then you may have lost that feeling for your current love interest. -If youre in the relationship because youre afraid to be alone or because you dont think you can do much better. This is a sign that you feel more anxiety than love. 2.Look through the windshield, not the rear-view mirror. In order to move forward in your relationship, you have to absolutely stop obsessing over your loved ones past--as well as your own. -Avoid asking too many questions about your loved ones past relationships, and definitely avoid snooping through his things or looking online for hints about his past. 3.Share your passions. Its important to have common interests other than your love for each other. At first, passion may be enough to keep your love going, but once your relationship matures, its important to share common interests or activities so that your relationship stays fresh. -You should work on sharing hobbies.. -Make time for fun for funs sake. 4.Share your passions--but not all of them. Though its important to have shared interests with your loved one, it is just as important to have your own interests. -Its important to maintain your own identity while building an identity as a couple. 5.Learn to compromise. Its important to stand up for what you believe in--but only to a point. -But always remember that its important that both people are willing to make a sacrifice. If you find yourself always giving in to your loved ones needs, big or small, its time to have a talk. 6.Follow your own pace. The biggest mistake you can make is putting your foot on the gas to catch up with all the speeding cars--youll end up crashing and burning. -Even if all of your friends and their pet fish are getting married, it does not mean that you are ready to take the plunge. 7.Communication is key. If something is bothering you, its important to let your loved one know so you can tackle the problem together. -Pick the right place and time to have a talk. -Use the right tone to get heard. If you begin the conversation in an aggressive manner, your significant other is likely to get defensive. Be as calm and rational as possible, even if youre feeling angry. This will let your significant other actually hear what you have to say. -Dont be too confrontational. Try saying, -Dont let the small things build up. If you want to avoid having big serious talks all the time, remember that if something small ticks you off, you can tell your significant other without making a big deal about it. 8.Even if your love is rock solid, your loved one should not be taken for granted. Remind yourself how lucky you are to have found your soul mate, but that itll take hard work to make the relationship thrive. =No matter how busy your days are, try to find the time to have a conversation when youre both away from your computers, phones, and televisions. Its important to make time for each other even if everything is going well. -Do something completely new together as often as you can, -Compliment your significant other at least once a day. For bonus points, find something new to say every time! -Hope you learnt something.... -Be blessed and Shalom-
Posted on: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 17:25:02 +0000
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