8-)8-).. Sallahs Pabulum..8-)8-) ..... GOOD COMPANIONSHIP....... One day, the Prophet (SAW) told Aaishah (RA) the lengthy Hadeeth of Umm Zar, which was narrated by Muslim & was explained by some scholars in volumes due to its enormous pearls of wisdom & meanings. After the prophet (SAW) told Aaishah (RA) how Abu Zar treated his wife Umm Zar, the prophet (SAW) said: I am to you like Abu Zar to Umm Zar. He (SAW) meant by this that he was perfect in good companionship and intimacy, just like Abu Zar was with Umm Zar. In happy & cheerful moments, the prophet (SAW) brought hapiness and cheer to his family. It was authentically narrated that on the day of Eid the Abyssinian boys arrived and played with spears in the mosque. Just look at the perfect shareeah of Islam and its sublime mission! On that day of Eid which is characterised by hapiness, the souls need a type of peace and affinity to remove the state of apathy & weariness. On that day, the Abyssinians entered the mosque of the prophet (SAW) and paraded with their spears. Just look where the parade was held; it was held in the second most sacred House of Allah, the mosque of the prophet (SAW)! The mosque was taken as a place where people played with spears on the day of EID because it was a merry occasion. Islam is a religion of perfection that gives everything its due right and estimation! Aaishah (RA) wanted to feel happy on that day. She wanted to watch the Ethiopians parading with their spears. She asked the prophet to let her see the parade, so how did the prophet (SAW) reply to her? Did he tell her that she was immature or that she was wasting her time? Did he start reminding her that Paradise and Hell were approaching! No. The Prophet (SAW) stood up on his noble feet gallantly and competently to allow her to watch the Ethiopians, not for the purpose of watching for its own sake, but because he knew that this standing would please Allah The Almighty. The Prophet who was the cream & most perfect of creation, kept standing to please Allah without the least feeling of blemish or belittlement, because he felt that he was bringing AFFECTION, LOVE and HAPPINESS to his family and translating his TRUE LOVE and PERFECT MARRIAGE by his standing. For that reason, the prophet (SAW) was the best husband to his wife, and his behaviour represent the perfect and best guidance for the Muslim who wants to live equitably with his wife. His wife would prepare his food & drink, and when he (SAW) gathered with his family, beloved persons and wife under one roof, he (SAW) would not say unpleasant words to her. If he found fault with it, he would not dispraise or critize it, nor would he dispraise the one who cooked it. Living equitably requires sacrifice, true love and mutual emotions that indicate perfection in marrige & intimacy. Therefore the guidance of the prophet is the most perfect guidance. It was authentically narrated that Aaishah (RA) said that she would bringg broth or milk to the prophet and though he (SAW) was the one who requested it, he would insist that she drink before him. Aaishah was a noble woman and daughter of a noble man, so she did not accept drinking before the messenger of Allah and prserved his right. When she gave him the drink, he would ask her to drink first and when she refused, he would insist by taking an Oath that she would drink first. As a result, she would take the container and drink & after that the prophet (SAW) would put his mouth in the same spot that her mouth had been. The prophet did not do so without reason; rather, he wanted to let her know her value and to show her his LOVE & AFFECTION. That is because just as the prophet (SAW) sought closeness to his Lord through prostration and bowing to Him, he also sought closeness to him through comforting his wifes heart, bringing her happiness and making her cheerful. The prophet sought closeness to Allah by teaching the UMMAH (Muslim Nation) perfect manners & the best ways of treating families & wives. These ar vry important matters dat a Muslim should pay attention to.. Somtyms d wife needs to feel happy in her home, so if the Muslim wants to make her so he should adopt d guidance of d prophet. Somtyms she wants 2feel happy outside d house, so we find dat d prophet would go out with his wife to Qubaa and race her..... So, siblings in Islam, i say: EIDUKUM MUBARAK and do not 4get 2Remember ur brethren in Islam all over the Globe in ur sincere prayers... May Allah ease the sufferings of the Muslims worldwide...
Posted on: Tue, 15 Oct 2013 05:13:51 +0000
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