#9977-Very much confused and no idea of where m heading ... I have been in a relationship for 8 years.We have been together from our school days and became couple in college and everything was going fine until he had a year down in his course..things changed ..changed for bad...I have been a topper throughout and got placed from college . he too got thru defence services but cudnt join due to his year gap.Later on he went ahead to pursue his MBA from a well reputed college and I joined Infosys. As my family was against intercast marriage and it wasnt an appropriate time to disclose about our rlnshp,he insisted that i too shud go for PG in order to buy some time.He guided me throughout my prep and I did well in written.Got call for interviews from esteemed colleges,better than his college.Meanwhile at the back end ,he developed a doubt about my frnshp wid my bestie and yes there were justified reasons for that .But he never discussed those things with me.He was doing his internship in mumbai and hence I chose Mumbai as location for my interviews so dat I can get sometime with him as we were staying apart for nearly two years (courtesy : Infy posting )...Things were quite normal and he tried to get intimate ....It was so not him and I felt awkward ...suddenly he became aggressive and slapped me accusing me of cheating him(which wasnt the case) and abusing me ....I was disgusted by his behavior and decided to end the rlnshp and I stopped all our communications.He appologised lot many times,wrote many mails and sweared n number of times ...I forgave him..I got thru one of the reputed colleges ,better than his .Initially he was happy about it but gradually discussions on the status and the future Salary Gaps have become prominent .If I miss his calls or cudnt reply due to my schedule ,he starts accusations (of me cheating him or finding a better match) .Now I am confused... Its not that I dnt love him but I need my space and I have tried re-assuring him many times but the way he behaves scares me...At times he has been violent (previously) and yes he is very conservative.But at the same time he is very caring and emotional . If I think practically ,I have developed doubts regarding our future but I love him. I dont know how to handle this situation :(
Posted on: Wed, 29 Oct 2014 10:49:51 +0000
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