A lot of yall females arent about shit. Yall have no morals, standards, and values. You dont care to seek self-worth because it is so much easier to accept the way people treat you even if only for a moment youre the center of their attention. Yall are attention whores and just want these niggas to be in yall presence even if they treat yall like shit. Many of yall care too much about these niggas and not about yall children and that is sad. These children dont ask to come into this world so the least yall could do is care for them while they are in your homes and do everything yall can to raise them right because at the end of the day being a mother is not just about being able to bring a child into the world. Stop making everybody else take care of your children while you running the streets because once you bring a child into the world it is time to pack that immature shit up and take responsibility for someone other than yourself. Now men. If a woman decides to bring forth a child and you happen to be a father, regardless of the mothers actions do what you can to help be there and support your children. (Side note: Ladies stop being immature and let your childs father be in their lives regardless of you and his relationship. He may not be doing things the way you want him to as far as providing, but what is more important? A childs bond with their father, you being in your feelings about not being with that man or money contribution? You decide, but just know that your decision effects the child as well.) Fellas remember when building families or co-parenting you must communicate with you childs mother. If there is ever a difference in how to raise your child simply communicate your feelings with your childs mother and make sure to listen with understanding and not the intentions to answer because yes, we women can be emotional, yet with all that emotion it is because we care and although you may not understand it, it makes perfect sense to us and even though you dont want to hear us vent to you.. sometimes that closure or healing is what we need and the only person we can do that with is the person who caused that pain in the first place. Take responsibility for your actions (men and women) and things will go a lot smoother when it comes to healing the connection of a man and woman who is connected with a child. Oh and Ladies... Stop putting your children against their fathers they will despise you for it later on in their lives when they find out the truth. Stop playing the victim all the time when you played a hand in the problem as well. Stop accusing every man for being the root of all the problems because we know damn well half of the time the woman cannot own up to the part she plays in these situations. It is easy to place the blame somewhere else, but sometimes you need to check yourself. #TimeForHealingFamilies #StrongBonds #Communication #BlackFamilies
Posted on: Sat, 13 Dec 2014 08:47:55 +0000
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