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Admin Patricia A Winfield Can two people walk in the same shoes? We often think that our sisters have it better. As I work diligently at keep the weight off I have looked at someone who appears not to have a problem and shake my head, saying if only I could look like that. Then I look at my youngest child who struggles to gain weight. She actually has to eat things that will cause her to gain. Today Im satisfied in my skin. Are you? Day 15: I’ll Have What She’s Having One problem with trying to eat healthy is when you sit down next to a skinny girl who wolfs down everything on her plate. It makes me want to say, “I’ll have what she’s having.” A similar frustration pops up when Ms. Petite picks up her kids in a cute tennis outfit that I could never wear. The paradox of comparing ourselves to other people is that we become blind to what we already have in the face of what we don’t have. Our hearts are drawn into a place of assumption. We assume that everything is great for those who possess what we lack. But here’s the kicker. Everyone has not-so-great aspects their lives, things that they will have to learn to surrender or sacrifice. Sure, my size-two friend could eat all the snacks she wanted, but she’s got other struggles for which she has to depend on God. For instance, consider that skinny girl in your life who eats whatever she wants and makes you think, “How unfair.” Yet listen to what she might say in return, as someone once shared with me: “I am one of the skinny girls, but don’t mistake skinny for healthy. I battle depression, self-esteem issues, and verbal abuse. The list seems endless. Being little doesn’t make a person any more happy or faithful or joyful. The struggles are similar, just in a different size package.” Life as a Christ follower will always be a learning process of depending less on our own strength and more on God’s power. James 1:3-4 says, The testing of your faith develops perseverance, and perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature, complete, not lacking anything. Why not make this a daily prayer, first thing in the morning: “God, I recognize that I am made for more than the vicious cycle of being ruled by food, body image, and comparing myself to others. I am thankful that You made my body unique in ways that I can serve You and in ways that turn my reliance upon You. I need to eat to live, not live to eat. So I keep asking for Your wisdom to know what to eat and Your indwelling power to walk away from things and thoughts that are not beneficial for me.” Oh sweet sisters, this truth should be the cry of our souls and drown out Satan’s lie that “she has it easier.” Our taste buds crave many things to satisfy, but only persevering with God will make us truly full. Father, thanks for this body. I havent taken as good care of it over the years as I should but have come to realize is mine. If I allow you to direct me Ill learn to love every part of me just as you do. Lord I give you the praise and Glory for the opportunity to take care of this body so that it will give you honor. Not in how it looks but in what I do with. So that I can serve, teach, share and fight this good fight with wisdom. This is my prayer in the name of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, Amen, Amen, & Amen!!!
Posted on: Thu, 16 Jan 2014 13:03:08 +0000

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