As they wait for the accuracy to come through at times I must stop the conversation to remind them I am communicating with their love ones. Many will walk in there simply wanting to hear what they want to hear and unfortunately some may walk out of the session a bit disappointed. Here’s how it works. Imagine a ladder from 1 to 10. I, the medium, must bring myself up to 5 and the spirit must bring themselves down to 6. Extreme accuracy will only come through between 5 and 6. If I am up to 5 and the spirit is up to 8, I may have difficulty connecting with them. But sometimes I am up to 5 and the spirit will be down to 6 and it is the living client that is creating an unfortunate wall between all of us, making the session not so great. Question:- How come my cousin’s session, names of her deceased loved ones came through crystal clear and mine didn’t have any names? Answer:- Perhaps the spirit didn’t bring themselves lower to me from the ladder example I shared above. Some spirits are extremely strong naturally while others may need help by other spirits behind them pushing them to speak up. It’s really important that each and every one of you that walks into any of my sessions with an open mind without expectations. You can hope your father comes through and I am sure he will somehow but let the session and energy flow naturally, if you ask too many questions the session may end. Some spirits will come in the session with a list of things they want to talk about but if we interrupt the energy that’s being connected, it may create a disconnection, just like when you are talking on the phone with someone. That’s why I always said, skeptics are welcome but they must be open-minded and let the session flow. Sometimes I wonder if these sessions are only for believers and for ones who truly need closure instead of walking in there in the hope they receive the shock factor and walk outside the session white as a ghost which has happened countless times but I cannot predict it will happen with you. Many will walk in there with this in mind: - “Lets go see how great he is, my neighbor’s friend had an amazing experience...i’ll be the judge of that.” My response- Although I fully understand your motive but I must also make it clear that it shouldn’t technically be all about me since it is your deceased relatives that should be important. If your deceased relatives truly come through along with their names and extreme detail, you may walk out of my session with a “Rude awakening”. You will most likely forget the entire session because you are being in total shock. Many times, either it’s a private session, small group or big group, I will tell everyone that we must all be on the same page otherwise it will be extremely draining for me and the messages won’t flow naturally. If for whatever reason I feel threaten or judged, or ridiculed, I will have no choice but to lower my energy down to 3 for my own protection and it has happened in the past and normally I always voice my concern to the clients. Normally they’ll say:- “Oh no, not at all, we aren’t judging you at all.” But deep down the session isn’t what they expected, they expected more and that took a toll on me because all they want to hear are key words which can be possible but it can be extremely draining as I don’t read minds and if the spirits came over with a list of things to talk about, if we interrupt their flow, then I bring my energy down to 3, the session is pretty much ruined so please let them speak first. If you witnessed my abilities first hand in a large group for instance, you may have noticed that some messages were way more accurate along with extreme detail with a few people while others received great messages but it wasn’t as detailed as the other ones. Here are the possibilities: -This person most likely was a believer (although skeptics are welcome but they must play by my rules in order for everything to flow naturally) - This person wasn’t expecting anything (sometimes I will communicate with spirits for awhile and messages and messages aren’t enough, they want to hear more accuracy, I normally tell them we must stop because it will never be enough and no messages will bring them back) - This person took the messages as they came and that’s that. (Be a sponge to the messages received and be grateful you got one or some.) - If there’s an ounce of fear, the flow may not be as great also since I am not there to scare you in any way. -This person kept an interaction with me throughout the messages given. I am just like all of you, I don’t know everything and although I will initiate all communications with the spirits, it’s really important that we still have a form of interaction because if I get the feeling I am talking to walls, the messages wont flow as much, please show me respect too since in the end of it all, I am human too! I am not asking you for information, just a little confirmation I am on the right track with all of them coming through. Question-: I have gone to one of your groups and no one came through for me, why? Answer-: Perhaps you were only there to listen for this time around. Who said that your deceased relatives are ready to speak in front of all these people? Maybe they want something smaller? If your relatives was a shy person, it may be more difficult for them and me to feel the connection although I have seen and heard many shy spirits come through loud and clear so let not make this a conclusion. Perhaps this group will prompt you into requesting a small group which is held at my office since it would be more private and it would only be for you and your family only. I take big groups almost like an audition to all of you, if you enjoy the experience you will request something smaller for you to enjoy and receive closure. And groups are super fun because you have all your family and friends witnessing something amazing. These are little things to know about before walking in any session of mine. Thanks for listening PS- If someone decides to publish a translation in French, please make sure its translated so it makes sense. Thanks a million ;)
Posted on: Mon, 07 Apr 2014 21:04:35 +0000
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