COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPs -Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it, your relationship goes cold. ~ William Paisley A satisfying relationship with another person requires good communication, mutual understanding and empathy. If there is a significant drop in one of these factors, e.g. we disagree and have an argument, then an upset ensues - we arent speaking to one another anymore. We have to get over that barrier and start communicating - which means to begin listen openly and intently as well as to express how we feel. Communication is the solvent of all problems and is the foundation for personal development. As Brahma Kumaris says, Good feelings for others are like ointments that heal wounds and re-establish friendship and relationships. Good feelings are generated in the mind, are transmitted through your attitude and are reflected through your eyes and smile. Smiling opens the heart and a glance can make miracles happen. Before you speak, think: Is it necessary? Is it true? Is it kind? Will it hurt anyone? Will it improve on the silence? ~Sai Baba Mindfulness is the practice of being consciously aware of ones thoughts, feelings and actions, paying attention in the present moment, and perceiving what exists non-judgmentally. Its the opposite to mindlessly reacting according to programmed behavior patterns and emotional responses, flying off the handle in other words. Its an ability we can all cultivate if we have a mind to, and our relationships will benefit massively if we do. Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no love. Without trust there is no reason to continue. ~ Unknown Communication (expression and listening) leads to understanding, which leads to empathy, whch leads to compassion. Compromise and agreements become possible, the way ahead shared. With good communication you can feel connected, understood, appreciated and more loved - and make another feel the same. Good communication is like water to a plant, it helps relationships blossom and grow. The most important thing in communication is hearing what isnt being said. The art of reading between the lines is a life long quest of the wise. ~ Shannon L. Adler People can sometimes be hesitant to be honest, to tell the truth, and all of the truth. We can use our gut feeling to know when whats being said isnt congruent with the situation. And use our intuition to know what question to ask that will bring the truth out into the open. Dont assume your partner knows about everything you expect or want in a relationship. Let him or her know. A relationship should be based on communication, not on assumption. I dont know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. ~ Bill Cosby Serving others offers great rewards. Serving at the expense of yourself - through propitiation or people-pleasing as a means of manipulation - comes with a huge cost that ultimately limits your ability to serve, and limits your ability to achieve anything through authentic commitment. A relationship based on people-pleasing is unbalanced and an unnecessary sacrifice of integrity, that will eventually break down. (PS. ..my preparation for tomorrows meeting .... how is my work....I have to build up with this back ground and to deliver the speech for one hour and then I have to face drill from the audience.... Shall I impress them or the message impact them?)
Posted on: Thu, 08 Jan 2015 18:14:26 +0000
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