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Can I just make a statement... without breaking hearts and starting conflict... It has been weighing on my heart and I KNOW there are a lot of people out there who think the same, but maybe not voicing it... Calling someone too skinny is just as hurtful as calling some too fat! I have been hearing it from so many people lately that I am too skinny, I look sick, I look emaciated, etc etc etc... Here is the deal ---> I dont workout for anyone else, except myself -- I have made this comment before -- I workout bc its my therapy and keeps me sane, I am being a role model for my kids, I want to look hot for my smokin hot fiancé Stuart and I wanna be able to walk around naked with the lights on and feel confident! Name calling and labeling is NOT something I stand for -- I have been labeled my entire life and currently labeled in my own neighborhood bc of my age, red hair, kids and tattoos (who at this age has a house like that look at her tattoos what does your hubby do?)! I mean seriously! Its hurtful... Its rude and no wonder people have ZERO self-confidence! I am not sick, I actually feel AWESOME, until my hypothyroid decides to go wonky! I am NOT depressed, I love life. I eat A LOT - ask anyone in my personal life. I exercise 5x a week. I love wine. I read smuck romance novels. I indulge in late night TV. I take naps during the day. I work my ass off for my family. I always stand up for what is right! Maybe its a shock to see me at a 60 pound weight loss or maybe its the fact you didnt know me when I was thinner... But telling me I look sickly and not good is disheartening and hurtful. If you are truly worried, you would ask instead of assume! xo Ok, I am done! **DROPS MIC**
Posted on: Fri, 22 Aug 2014 02:31:27 +0000

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