DAILY : PILLOW TALK with Sacred Relationship THE HARD STUFF: Todays post is about cheating...We have folks who come to our retreats where one of the spouses has cheated on the other. The one who has been cheated on usually holds all the anger and the other is racked with guilt. As you can imagine there is no way to move forward with that as the foundation of the relationship. How do you move forward? FORGIVENESS is key, BUT for both parties. We work a lot with release for this situation and encourage both partners to forgive...One to forgive the other and the cheating partner to forgive him/herself. If they do not forgive themselves there is no way to move forward. Something also seems to happen on the side of the person who has been cheated on...which is they believe they have cart blanche to treat the other however they want to and the other person has to take it...because they cheated...get my drift. This is a terrible cycle for a couple to get in BUT I have to say its one you can get out of and one that involves EGO RELEASE. We are hurt when someone cheats because we feel bad inside like they chose someone else over us...that we werent good enough...we SAY we are angry because they broke vows, etc...and while that is true, when we peel back layers its about ego strength and understanding that relationships take two people to make them work. Nobody wants to feel like they are not special to their beloved or that their beloved did not handle their heart and love with care...BUT affair does NOT have to be the end of the world and does not have to end the marriage if both partners WANT to make it work. LOVE + FORGIVENESS and do-overs can happen. If you have been hurt in this way...I challenge you to FORGIVE...even if you are no longer with that person...IT FREES YOU UP OF TOXIC ENERGY INSIDE! You can be brave enough to even leave just a couple words on this thread saying I forgive we will hold you in our special thoughts today...
Posted on: Tue, 28 Oct 2014 13:17:20 +0000
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