Dear NaijaOnPoint. I really need advice before I breakdown.please hide my identity. Back in 2011,I met a guy. I was 19 and he was 27,we started of just liking each other and then months later we were so in love with each other,he had a good jobs and a car and at the time I didnt notice all that because I didnt expect him to do anything for him. I visiting my aunt at the time so four months into our relationship I decided to move back home,which was about two hours drive away from. Nothing changed then because I still made plans to visit him,I even told my parents about him because I felt I loved him enough. then he first broke the car then resigned from his job. To cut the long story short. I loved him through everything he went through. A year later he found another job. Things were great,he paid lobola for me and I got welcomed as a makoti which meant I had to move in with him. Thngs have changed a lot since I got here. I feel like Im in the way. He is so mean towards me. He even goes as far as telling me that he will plan our white wedding because he is the one who works. I was planing on goin back to studying law but he has kicked my spirit so low I dont see myself goin anywhere. I never feel like leaving the house because I dont feel beautiful I feel like people will see all the pain and disappointments in my heart. He always has something to complain about. Im even ashamed to tel my own mother about all this. When he is broke I have to ask my parents for money .Im not sure if I still love him. When I try to leave him he begs me and says hell change,he changes for a week then goes back to his habits. I really dont know what to do at this point. wanna go back home and go back to school but then again I dont want to feel like a looser. I dont know if this Is worth it though.
Posted on: Tue, 15 Jul 2014 07:24:40 +0000
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