Dear Zane I dont know were to start. Please keep me anyomous Im been married for 11 years to a man who dont know how to talk to me about are problems .Mainly money ones. I got us out of deate. Just for him to get us back in it! He was controlling the money up until a few months ago when I found out he wasnt paying the bills on time. So we slip the bills. He only have 3 bills to pay Now rent,lights and his car. I pay everything else and work 2 jobs to do si. I take care of a 2 sons also. He also pays child support for a child he has . Today I check the mail to find a letter saying he late on the rent. Im sick of getting us out of mess he has got us in. please help feed up in Vegas MY RESPONSE: You are not completely fed up or you would not still be with him. After 11 years of marriage, there should not be these many complications. If you two are splitting the bills and he is not doing his part, especially with two kids in the house and an additional child, then he is doing those things by choice. It is a cliche but you truly can do bad all by yourself. You are going to have to decide what you will or will not tolerate. You have to help yourself out of this. You know what needs to be done. You just dont want to do it. Until you make it clear that you will not take his behavior, he has no reason to change. Good luck.
Posted on: Tue, 27 Jan 2015 15:26:29 +0000
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