Dear Zane, ive been with man for 4 yrs and he cheated on me the first view months we were togther so I lefted nd went bk to peoria il. But I was always talkin to him on the phone nd when my friend dad was on his death bed I came bk to kc mo to get my man mind u while I was gone my man was still cheatin on me but I allowed it and so on and so on well for the last yr we been cool til just recantly I helped him get his disablity and sense he has been gettin his money another side of him has came out he has always been abusive to me but just two days ago he finds out tht this white b.... he has a child by her but mind u the child is in state custody and now she wants my man to kno its his kids so he disrepects me and brings her over to where we stay and then wants me to sit around her while he does wht ever well Zane I got my stuff and lefted nd I feel like my heart is on fire I wanna kill myself I dont wanna live nomore I love him so much nd dont understand why I keep gettin stepped on and im a good women please can u write me bk here or on facebook it doesnt matter to me who.sees this cause it is wht it is ive been fouled and rather just die thanks for yr time love all yr books and shows on max and wanna see yr new movie sincerly MY RESPONSE: You need to find your center. Why would you consider killing yourself over a man who has zero respect for you or anyone else? Why would you be mad at the other woman for falling for his jedi mind tricks just like you did? Her race is irrelevant, by the way. She has every right to tell him that he has a child. What the situation is with state custody and the child is not your issue. The issue is that you knew he was a cheater from the first few months of your relationship. When you moved, he moved on, and when you came back, he was still doing him and you know why? Because he had already tested the waters and understood that you would accept sharing him with other women. You are getting stepped on because you are lying down in the middle of the road for him to do it. You need to stop accepting foolishness and expecting a man to change. On top of that, you said that he has always been abusive. You need to let him go and get yourself some counseling because of your suicidal thoughts, your low self-esteem, and your tolerance of abuse. You are misplacing your anger on another woman who probably has her own issues, if she is dealing with the same idiot. Only thing is that she has to be tied to him because they have a child together. Stop thinking about death and concentrate on getting your life in better order. I love you and if you need to call the National Suicide Prevention LIFELINE at 1-800-273-8255, please do so.
Posted on: Sat, 26 Jul 2014 15:19:29 +0000
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