Despite how fickle this might sound, people have got to take a few very simple things into consideration when getting involved in a relationship. The fickle part being the few simple things you need to consider. 1. If you a metal head / rocker and you live your life accordingly, the person you are with needs to share this extremely important facet of your life with you, for me thats an immediate three strike, youre out! I am not going to stop listening to heavy metal, watching horror movies, playing PC games, basically Im not going to stop being a nerd and Im certainly not going to stop being a freethinking individual who likes to look outside the box, etc. As I do not expect any potential partner to stop baking cakes, loving children, enjoying rave noise (sorry, music), hate watching live bands, etc. If thats who you are then the obvious, simple thing would be to part ways there and then. But some people are so caught up in all the empty promises of change that they waste years of their life with the wrong person, always hoping for that change. On the other hand, if you can find someone to genuinely and sincerely share this with, you will have a loyal, loving mate for life, through thick and thin! 2. Religion. Im sorry to say that eventually your religious differences will destroy your relationship. It may not be apparent right away, maybe not even after two or three years, but trust me, it will start becoming an issue and when that particular issue raises its head, thats it, game over. 3. You can respect another person for who and what they are, you can accept ones cultural, religious and ethnic differences, you can pretend to enjoy what the other person enjoys to make them happy (only for so long), meanwhile you are slowly dying inside, but eventually things boil over and shit will get real ugly, real quickly. Its inevitable. You cannot mold your partner into something they are not and think they wont eventually break from all the bending, prodding and pocking to manipulate them into the perfect little person you want them to be. You either are compatible or you are not. It really is that simple. Anyone who says it isnt and tries to complicate it by over-analyzing is full of shit! Yes, the initial physical attraction is what draws one person to another, but that should take all of half an hour to see through and determine whats what. You dont love after someone, you LUST after them, initially. It soon burns out and fades away. Thats why there are so many two, three month relationships. But most people are so lonely that they ignore all the warning signs of impending doom and try so hard to pretend that everything is hunky dory because they are frightened to death of not being with someone, doesnt matter who, they just cant be alone. So they suffer through a loveless relationship with someone they can barely stand (after three months) and they get married, have kids, stay together for the kids, get divorced when the kids move out and try start all over again, having wasted 30 years of their lives.
Posted on: Thu, 06 Mar 2014 10:28:46 +0000
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