Do everything possible to stay out of the court system. Do this by disengaging from the ex and his ridiculous behaviors. However, If court is inevitable, stay focused on your relationship with your kiddos and continue to do fun stuff. Look at court as a means to an end and just do what is necessary. Try to go by the custody papers and do not take the hcx so seriously. Whatever the reason you are going to court, stay relaxed and continue to see your ex as a barking yippy, annoying little , dog in someone elses yard blocks away. EVEN IN COURT. The judges generally like to see people stay calm and reasonable. Letting the ex get under your skin is EXACTLY what the high conflict person wants. And usually the hcx is threatening court to keep you upset. Get educated, find a lawyer who can explain your judges and how they work. Learn not only the possible outcomes based on facts and circumstances of your case but get very informed on the PROBABLE outcomes of your case... the good and the bad. Never take your ex to court because he/she made you angry. Only do this if the best interest of your child is truly at risk. The size of shoes and uncombed hair is silly. So is your subjective opinion of the other parents parenting abilities and frankly a waste of your money and your judges time. If you want what is best for your kiddos, DISENGAGE , even if court is necessary.
Posted on: Sat, 19 Jul 2014 12:13:05 +0000
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