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Dont obsess about getting closure. Cut off contact now, and resist the urge to resort to theatrics (such as sending a lengthy goodbye email). Just stop. 23 Helpful? 2 Forgetting someone can help you move on, but try not to forget what you learned from the relationship. No time is wasted as long as you learned something. 19 Helpful? 2 Dont ever attempt to reach out to them. They might try to contact you but stick to your decision and do not let them back in. Remember why you walked away from them. 17 Helpful? 3 Dont be quick to jump into a new relationship to forget last. This will always fail. 14 Helpful? 1 Do something other than you might have done with them. Start branching out into new things. 12 Helpful? 0 Never try to hate that particular person; as you try to hate them they will get obsessed and engrossed over your minds, which will tempt you to think about them every moment and every second. Consequently, you will not be able to forget the person rather get irritated. Never listen to music when you are upset, it will complicate other things too! 10 Helpful? 0 Hang out with your friends. Let your friends give you a reality check on how your ex was not very to begin with, and there are more fish in the sea. 12 Helpful? 1 Its always difficult to forget a long term relationship, just know you deserve better and nobodys perfect. Understand that life goes on and so do people. 9 Helpful? 1 Dont try to get your stuff back. Unless it is a diamond ring or something that is one-of-a-kind, you are better off not contacting her to get it back. DVDs, clothes, your extra toothbrush ... just let them go. They are only possessions. Is it worth the pain of being in her presence just to reclaim a pair of boxer shorts? Do not exchange your dignity for menial belongings. 13 Helpful? 2 Think about negative deeds he or she done. Think about worst time you spend with her or him. This will help you bringing out your mind from his or her thoughts. 13 Helpful? 1 ↑ Back to top Warnings
Posted on: Sat, 26 Oct 2013 16:12:24 +0000

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