FAN SUBMITTED QUESTION First let me give you a quick background to give you an insight of what my problem is, I became a mother at age 17 (I did graduate and went to college after)4 years later at 21 I was married and had my 2nd son, after 5 years I got divorced and became a single mother, when my youngest son was 13 I took custody of my nieces 3kids (5,7,8) I raised them for 5 yrs until my niece got herself together, both my sons graduated and went off to college, Im now 49 (sons are now 28/32) with 3 beautiful grand babies whom I love dearly, I love when they visit because I know theyre going home after the weekend is over lol fast forward to my dilemma I ran into an old friend ( not boyfriend) this past January we exchanged numbers and have been dating since, he had told me he wasnt looking for just a girl friend but a potential wife, he had been married to a woman 10yrs younger then him (hes now 52)and had another child (13 now) that has special needs, hes been divorced since his son was 10, his ex moved out of town when she found out about us out of spite, he didnt know where they were, he tried everything he even tried getting info from child support about where the checks were being sent but was told they couldnt give out that info, about 3 weeks ago he got a call from a relative saying they were back in town, he got to see his son who was in bad shape because his mom had taken him off his meds, he said he was not talking or responding to any one, he took him to the dr and was told that he should not have been taken off the meds with out dr advise, he says hes now going to fight her for full custody, (now heres where I might get backlash,) weve been hitting it off great, I knew that I would be in his sons life, because I always say a child is a package deal, but I dont know what to do if he does get full custody of him, Im not ready to be a full-time Mom again, Ive been raising children since I was 17 and Ill be 50 next year and I thought at my age I would be enjoying my life kids free, his son is not like other kids at 18 off to college, he will always need to be cared for, am I wrong for feeling this way? How do I tell him how I feel about this? Ive fallen in love with him and we have been talking about our future together, what should I do? I need of help quick!!
Posted on: Tue, 26 Nov 2013 00:53:27 +0000
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