Finally found some support to my thoughts... Raising two teenage girls is hard enough; to be thrust into singleness and required to set appropriate examples outside of a traditional husband and wife role is even more difficult. Unless youve been in my shoes, you may not understand, so read this with a grain of salt and please do not pass judgement. My beef is with women who plaster themselves (or their boobs and bodies anyway) all over social media and even more with the guys who promote such behavior and send the signal to girls everywhere, of all ages, that its ok!! What Im tempted to say in this moment is guys, you can look at every single set of boobs on the internet as much as you want, well, because you are a dude, and thats just what you do, BUT we gals get to change our mind, mood, and outfits a million times at any given moment, and we are allowed to tell you about every single moment of our day uninterrupted and without judgement, and you are not allowed to become impatient, complain, hold it against us, and you must stay committed to us and only us (just the one of us) no matter how wishy washy we may be, PERIOD, because well thats just how we women are, we cant help it, and you have to simply deal with it. Is it a deal, guys? Sound reasonable? Well get over it or get your eyes on your girl and only your girl! Self control. If we ladies are expected to have it, so should you. Get off your phones, turn off the videos, stop supporting the industries, put away the pictures, and stop looking at women as mere objects put on this earth for your eye appeal, and you expect respect in return? Ladies, by all means, show off the new swim suit and hot body you worked for all year and the cute outfits you and your friends are sporting every once in a while, but STOP with the boob selfies, and you dont need string bikinis to show off your well earned abs! If you are looking up toward the sky to take your picture, you have no other goal than to have someone look down your shirt. What an awful example you are setting for young ladies. And guys, if she is showing her boobs off to dozens and maybe hundreds of guys on social media, YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL when she shows them to you. Let your ego swallow that one for a minute. I love Facebook and Instagram and other social media sites. I think they are very valuable if used appropriately. I enjoy taking pictures of my kids, my pets, and yes, sometimes myself to share. Ive worked hard to find myself and have grown to really love and accept myself, not in a weird narcissistic way, but truly love who I have become and happy with the way I look most days. I highly recommend it for all. It took YEARS for me to find such confidence, so if you dont like what I share, feel free to delete me. I have encouraged my girls to embrace social media and have tried to be a role model of how to use it appropriately, especially in regards to the male and female relationships. It seems every where I turn Im bombarded with girls boobs and the plethora of guys, grown men, that like them, its quite disheartening for me as a grown woman, just wanting to do the right thing and set a good example. I cant imagine how it must feel for the thousands of young women out there who are trying desperately to do the same. Ladies, save it for your man. Men, show some respect. Respect it all. Plain and simple.
Posted on: Tue, 02 Sep 2014 03:31:43 +0000
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