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Flexible We coaches and tennis players can not expect that everybody,family,friends,team co-workers to believe in what we believe,to think the way we think neither to like what we like,people who wants to dominate is not nice¿who are we or what right do we have to manipulate and limit the people around us? Our life would be more pleasant if we are flexible and respectful ,of course we have to adapt to every situation that life put us,because life is adaptation,an unadaptable becomes a nuisance to sociaty ,becomes a non-conformist,querulous,and a very unpleasant human being.How many times we go out to the tennis court and the world so eager to please people ,forget our personel dreams and goals,we never listen the advice of the coach or friends.Many times we are very stuborn and blind to see that we can not always winn,and go blaming everybody,coaches blame players ,players blame coaches.but we do not see inside ourselfs,inside us are the solutions and the answers to all the problems that life and game present us.Players need to be able to shift rapidly and accurately,for example a player broadly scans internal thougts to find a winning atrategy ,he or she then shifts attention quickly to external elements,such as the ball hight,spin,or the position of the opponent,finally narrows attention to the ball for the winning shot.This constant mental shifting from external to internal broad to narrow and back is the essence of attention and flexibility,this allows aplyer to choose what is important,be flexible and stay focus upon it as long as necessary and shiftand adapt as needed ,we need to be like the willow who bends against the strongest winds and then straights up becoming the house of birds,the shadow of the tired,so let us be flexible.
Posted on: Thu, 06 Nov 2014 15:57:39 +0000

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