* For Girls Who Lost Herself In Love * But you said that you will convince our families for our marriage... She said this with her chocked throat and teary eyes. Yes, I told you but now it is not possible for me to convince your family... He was firm with his words. I told you before starting the relation that my Family wont agree for our marriage. But it was you who made me believe. You promised me to hold my hand and convince everyone for our marriage. I wasnt even ready for a relationship. You won my heart with your words, your promises, those gestures, and everything that you did... Damn! How can you back out like this??? she was losing her temper. She could not even stand on her feets as they started shivering listening to his words. You too know it that we have no future, your parents wont agree for us because I am working in an MNC, they need a businessman for you. I need 4,5 years to get settled and think of a Family , whereas your parents want you to get married in the next 2 years. Even our castes are different. Look dear, it is too hard to try for all this and I dont have time even for myself. How will I afford time for all this..? So its better that we should start staying away and try to have a life other than this relationship. he replied. Alright, you want me to move on na? Fine then. At this very moment, I am breaking all my contacts with you and you never ever dare to contact me. I never thought you would be so selfish. Anyway, thank you for everything and good bye.. Saying this, she kept the phone call. She was broken, she was crying, she was too weak when it came to Love. Her life revolved around a single guy who now left her in such a way that she started to screw up her life.. She fell sick, she was weak, her eyes swelled, she could not sleep. All this kept going for a month until one day, her inner voices said to her.. I cant spoil my Life just because he left me. Yes, I have loved him and maybe I can never stop doing that, but apart from it, I have my Parents, my brother, and my family- my cousins, uncles & aunts. They love me. And I cant show my broken side to them. Its not good to spoil my life just for Love. If he really loved me, we will be together, otherwise I will go with the flow. I trust on God, and I will live for my family. I will prove him wrong,I will stand on my feets and be independent. Ofcorse, there will be times when I will break down,,sometimes so much that I would feel I cant get up. But I have to keep going, no matter what. She was strong, all she needed was to realise this.. P.S.: This is not just the end of my love story, but many love stories have ended this way. So, this post goes out for those girls whose families are strict and wont allow them for love marriages,.. Please girls, think wise and then act. Dont rush into a relationship because he loves you. And for boys, dont commit anything that you wont be able to fulfill. It is easy to say sweet words and win a girl, but remember, a broken relation can leave lifetime scars on her heart and affect her future relationships.. Dont be into relationships just for passing your free times, instead, feel some sense of responsibility towards your partner and be firm on your commitment that you have given.. Falling in Love is too easy but keeping is hard. For a successful relationship, you need to keep falling in Love always with the same person AaDii
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 08:20:21 +0000
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