For all the people out there that ever said I didnt love my soon to be ex husband and that I must have done something wrong to cause the end of the marriage, take a look for a moment. Maybe one day youll realize all of the lies and see that a divorce is what was inevitable by his actions, over and over. Im done with being silent. Im done with people coming up to me that know us both asking me questions and saying what supposedly I must have done because he said it. Well guess what?! Our marriage was going to end several times over. We stuck it out due to hope and love! I did love that man, well, what was the illusion of a man. What led up to the proceedings of a divorce this time around? Insecurity, lies, anger, resentment, etc. For who ever he has tried to explain why he doesnt see his son, I have plenty of texts and emails Id be glad to show you. I may have blocked his number on my cell, but I have a home phone and email that he easily couldve contacted to try and reach out to my son. The last time I received my son back from his father, he was extremely malnourished and dehydrated. My own mother could not believe what she witnessed. My son came back in filthy clothing, was soiled and dirty, and drank water as if he hadnt had any in days. Since that day he did not ask to watch Xavier. He has not paid a dime to help with him since we separated! He filed divorce papers just days before a child support hearing just so he wouldnt have to end up paying, and he will continue to prolong it as much as he possibly can. He took his own dependent off of tricare in the beginning of May and I do have a statement of that from the US Army, which is against army regulation to do so. For all the people he has fooled, I feel sorry for you and hope you wake up from the land of illusion as I finally did this year after our third wedding anniversary, and found naked photos of girls talking to him on his old, deactivated Myspace. I was excited to start a new life without the army with him and our son, but I was not going to put up with anymore pain. Everyone that had been around the both of us before and after Xavier will even contest to what I am telling you about his selfish ways and the utter lack of care towards his son and I. No one can ever take away the pride I have for having raised that boy from the moment I learned I was pregnant. I practically was alone in every step of the way without help besides my husband as a financial support while married. I stood by his side during deployment no matter the ongoing fighting and suffering he put us through. I stood by his side when he decided to change his life and ETS out of the military and start his life. I stood by as I watched him destroy himself, but I will not stand by and endure anymore pain by his doing mentally. What ever he has to say about me to people that actually listen to him, I dont care. I know whats true and false along with family and friends, even mutual friends and his past coworkers! I am done accepting the silence and accepting the whispers behind my back. If you dare to talk about me why not message me or better yet comment here for the world to see your ignorance. I for one will defend myself. I will defend my son and fight for him. He is all I care about and all I will ever thank from my husband. And the minute he threatened me with taking my child away when Im all that Xavier has known, was the moment that I became stronger to become who I needed to be to protect my boy. You will never touch him again, never see him, never even talk to him. I dont care if you say Im crazy or what ever you can come up with to abide by your story. That child is my life and soul. Not even you can take away the bond I have with him, no matter how hard you try. The silence is over for me old friend.....
Posted on: Sat, 13 Sep 2014 19:23:03 +0000
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