Good morning boys and girls! There are going to be a few sore heads today after last night Christmas party but it is time to get up, time to make sure that we make today another great day! May be a day where you can learn to trust again after you have been hurt. He must have hurt you really badly. I can imagine that things were incredibly painful, and want to tell you that, whatever reason you have for feeling unable to trust, know that it’s valid and perfectly reasonable. Heartache can leave a traumatising mark that’s difficult to forget and can feel nearly impossible to overcome. When you find yourself in a situation that is the slightest bit familiar to how the hurtful past unraveled, it can feel nerve racking and emotionally chaotic. That identifiable jolt of surprise you feel when you glance over at his phone or that anger you feel when you ask a question or two brings you back to that moment when you first realised that no man can or should ever be trusted. Despite how he rationalises his actions, you have already expected an outcome that justifies your suspicion and negates anything that could disprove your theory. The situation isn’t what you thought it to be. Your mind drags on, clinging to the idea that you are bound to get hurt, that he’s doing something behind your back, that you are replaceable and that there’s someone else. Well, to every girl who finds it difficult to trust, give your new partner the chance to be different. It’s not a simple task and it definitely won’t be easy, but you must take it upon yourself to trust that your present situation won’t work out the same way as things did before. People will tell you that it’s not fair to pass the mistakes of another guy onto him. They will say that it’s not fair for him to be surrounded by doubt when he’s given nothing short of his best to make you feel loved and secure. This advice is all true, but the most unjust thing you could do is let yourself suffer again for the mistakes of the man who broke your heart. A relationship without trust is like an ice cream without a cherry on top… it doesn’t feel complete. It can’t blossom into a beautiful connection if you believe he’s screwing up what both of you have. But when you completely trust the person you are with, the foundation of the relationship will get stronger. You will feel confident that when faced with a compromising situation, he won’t do anything to jeopardise what you value the most. He’ll appreciate you for believing the good in him. When you stop fearing the what ifs of tomorrow and focus on the good things that come today, you will realise that the worries that you have focused on for so long are ghosts you have created that have hindered you from experiencing true happiness. Trusting someone is a choice you have to make for yourself. When you trust him, he will prove to you that he’s worthy of it. His actions will show you that there was nothing to fear. Remember, if in the end he disappoints you and hurts you, just move forward and continue to go through life with optimism about what genuine love and trust can bring. Because trust me, it’s beautiful. youtu.be/6yYchgX1fMw
Posted on: Sat, 06 Dec 2014 09:16:16 +0000
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