Group Input and Support Needed: Post anon., Please. Please send me prayers, positive thoughts and anything else you can muster. Im headed into a full day custody trial tomorrow morning. I have been divorced now for over 2 years and was awarded full legal and residential custody. My ExN is now wanting that changed because he wants his support lowered by trying to get the kids to live with him. I am the kids everything.... full time provider. He is seriously only financially supporting them a tiny bit because he lied about his income during our divorce. (thats being addressed as well) I will also add here that up until September of last year, he was going to drop all of this nonsense IF I would take him back. He did the whole classic N routine... texting me our song, reminding me of happy times, funny things the kids did while they were tiny, telling me how he wanted to die when I almost died in childbirth. You know.... the things that tug at your heartstrings the most. Soon as I got it through his head that I have moved on and that he had his chance, and he made his bed... he turned vile and hateful and now we are facing a full blown trial because of it. Classic.... right? Please pray and send positive vibes that the magistrate will LISTEN and see through to the real truth here in our case (instead of shopping for shoes on Ebay while were testifying) and will also put an end to this constant back and forth to court. Its another way of control, having me go running back to court every time he says so. My atty doesnt feel like he has a leg to stand on. Hes on his 3rd or 4th atty now and has been shown all along to be a father who parents when its convenient ONLY and nothing more. Im bringing family along with me to testify if they ask them to and would love to know that you ladies will be holding me in your thoughts as well. I am ready to move on with my life. I want to be free of his talons. Its my turn to fly and I want to do it with all 3 kids under MY roof where they belong... not with his girlfriend while he is always at work. Ill have the OMB on my hand as others have done to show me that there is strength in numbers and to remember to keep the faith. I promise to post here when its over but please forgive me if its not right away. Last time we had a trial for the divorce, I came home to a migraine that almost did me in. Thank you all in advance, and please remember me and the kids tomorrow..... we need your positive thoughts and your strength.
Posted on: Mon, 27 Jan 2014 01:10:17 +0000
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