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Have noticed a growing trend ie more and more cases of rebellious children being referred to us for treatment. Common challenges : - refusal to go on schooling - refusal to take exam - verbally and physically abusing their parents, care-takers & siblings - extremely poor social skills ( very few friends ) - obsessive compulsive disorder ( OCD ) 强迫症 ie washing hands over and over again - very low energy level - constant threat to commit suicide if their endless and whimsical needs are not met and the KEY point here is that 99.99% of the common root cause for all this imbalances arises from their parents or grandparents overindulging and doting from very young ( 放纵, 溺爱 ) My greatest wish now will be to share the above with more and more parents, grandparents and educators ... as our future solely depends on the quality of our young children & teenagers of now! The no.1 lesson gained when with John Grinders ( the co-creator of NLP ) NLP Parenting seminar years ago was : + the biggest manipulator in the world = children ( if we allow them to be ) 你之一生最大的操控者往往就是你的孩子!!! You see, if kids were allowed to get what they want when they throw tantrums 发脾气, theyll naturally use all the above as manipulations to get what they want yes! and once it becomes a habit, itll be a huge challenge to transform their neuro pathways 神经通路 !!! The most effective way to prevent this unwanted experience in your life would be to : allow and teach them to handle their own emotional imbalances by themselves from very young ! 允许并教他们自己从很小的时候处理自己的情绪失衡! Please ... please - do share this whole message in full with all your loved ones yes! NEVER EVER be manipulated by your kids from young! More than often, itll lead to tragedies and desperations when they grow up ... To know in detail how to be a smart and easy flowing parents and educators, do join us for 1Humanity Teams NLP Parenting workshop end of this year yes! In the meantime, if you choose for us to provide personalized counselling and transforming for your kids, pls do pm Master Danley Loh for appointment yes. May all parents and grandparents and educators step uP and be a wise and easy flowing soul. namaste, kk p/s Isnt it irony that we need licence to drive and get married etc - yet do not need coaching to be a parents?
Posted on: Sat, 11 Oct 2014 14:49:30 +0000

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