Hello, Zane. I am a 39 year mother of 5. 3 of them now live on their own and are going to college. My last two home are 16 and 12. Yes, I did start as a mother early. I was marries for almost 20 yrs. The marriage ended due to his infidelity. A year after my divorce I met an incredible man. He knew I how many kids I had. He came into our lives and everything seem great he got along great with my kids.. Until it came time to meet his mother... As, she liked me as a person she felt I was not suitable for her son... She felt we are on two separate levels. Ive been married and kids and he has not. He now feels he cant disappoint his mother.. Do I walk away? I love him and we talked about life. He told me he felt he finally found his queen. I put my foot down with my family. Im Puerto Rican hes black they werent too happy but I told them accept or not your decision. Yet I dont feel hes putting up a fight for me.. Severely...broken hearted. Ive told him I dont want to cause chaos in his family. (Love your book caramel flava) MY RESPONSE: How old is this man who allows his mother to dictate his happiness? If you are his queen, he needs to treat you like his queen. You have five children because you were married for two decades. That means that you believe in stability. It is not your fault that your ex-husband was an ass. You did nothing wrong and his mother needs to get a grip on reality. Your last two kids are practically grown as well. While I can understand-to a degree-her having different expectations for his life, he is entitled to love whomever he chooses. If he does not get that, then maybe you should walk. This is a sign of things to come.
Posted on: Sat, 03 May 2014 16:18:31 +0000
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